Should marrried couples have ex-lovers as friends?

**Speedy_Gonzales** · 06-17-2009, 11:06 PM

your thoughts............

**korndawg** · 06-17-2009, 11:11 PM

No. Trust a woman to be friends with an ex-lover? Hell no!

**KahanaReef** · 06-17-2009, 11:29 PM

It depends on the relationship. Sometimes yes, sometimes no... Sometimes relationships should go no further than friendships in the first place. Those are generally the ones that can remain friends.

It all depends. There is no yes or no answer to that question that fits everyone.

**ArcticZ06** · 06-18-2009, 12:33 AM

Depends on the people. Its possible. I have an ex that is a friend and everytime we meet up it seems like the sparks fly. Then again I have ex's that Im absolutely not physically attracted to at all anymore and have absolutely no emotional connection whatsoever. I could still hang with them every now and then but don't think I would really want to.

**02transamce** · 06-18-2009, 01:12 AM

i say no because the first time you have a really bad fight,she is going to go crying to her "friend" and he will probably give it to her like back when they were together.

**bandit95** · 06-18-2009, 01:36 AM

i say no. there's a reason that person is an ex. move on and quit hanging on to them

**JoshieDoom** · 06-18-2009, 02:02 AM

No they will always hold it over your head.

**Too Fast** · 06-18-2009, 02:04 AM

I didn't answer your poll because it depends on a lot. Sometimes it will work.

**cammed goat** · 06-18-2009, 03:43 AM

Hasn't this topic been discussed before?

: I consider this to be an "iffy" subject. I don't wanna be an insecure fk but as long as she is faithful, then everything is solid.

**korndawg** · 06-18-2009, 03:44 AM

I'm not insecure, I just don't trust women

**cammed goat** · 06-18-2009, 03:47 AM

The best are the women who don't trust other women around men. That is just EPIC.

**big hammer** · 06-18-2009, 04:18 AM

i say no--- just because i dont need to get myself in a situation where i might feel tempted and do something stupid--- and i don't need the drama of the gossip queens.

**nhraformula** · 06-18-2009, 06:20 AM

Originally Posted by korndawg

I'm not insecure, I just don't trust women

I agree with above and also theres a reason why they are an ex.

**0verkill** · 06-18-2009, 06:23 AM

i say no i cant stand the guys that dated my wife befor me for that reason and its the same with her.

**00LS12LS6Z28** · 06-18-2009, 06:32 AM

No and this is based on experience....I was the ex btw.

**jaxredg8** · 06-18-2009, 06:49 AM

I cant imagine an ex being a friend. Like has been said above over and over, there has to be a reason they are an ex!

**JHayesLS1** · 06-18-2009, 07:12 AM

Thats a big hell no. Ex's that were like little high school crush's that never went anywhere beyond a kiss I could care less. But when you went beyond that, fuck that. If he comes around his ass gets beat. If she doesn't tell him not to her ass gets sent to the curb.

**hutch1999** · 06-18-2009, 07:12 AM

havin some problems with the wife's ex mang?

your gonna need a hunting knife, duct tape, rope, and a shovel.... should fix everything....

**ibanez7** · 06-18-2009, 07:16 AM

if ex lovers are current friends with no bonded feeling, then yes it is fine.

I have a many exs, and one nighters that i am still friends with. I've been with my current gf for 5yrs and she is fine with it.

most people cant handle it because of insecurities and trust issues. Its the same as, even if your in a relationship you can still look and still flirt. Its human nature

**nhraformula** · 06-18-2009, 08:16 AM

Originally Posted by ibanez7

if ex lovers are current friends with no bonded feeling, then yes it is fine.

The problem even without bonded feeling is the fact is that it would be all to easy to do more than you should with the ex, i know i have and im sure everybody else for that matter.