Question for the Guys

[ls1blackbeauty98]

heres the situation: You have a girlfriend.

If you wanted to be with that girl, would you invite your ex girlfriend to hang out and "be alone" for an hour? I think the answer is SSSSOOOO obvious but id love to hear what yall have to say...

[DanWS6]

Is this a trick question?

[SiggyZ]

Your current boyfriend wants to have his ex over to spent quality time with you and him?

[ls1blackbeauty98]

Is this a trick question?

no trix question
just wanna see what ls1 thinks about a situation like that...

i personally think that the guy either wants his cake and eat it too OR he doesnt want to be with the GF and doesnt have the balls to tell her? OR he doesnt know what he wants.. any other opinions?

[Spaz]

no trix question
just wanna see what ls1 thinks about a situation like that...

i personally think that the guy either wants his cake and eat it too OR he doesnt want to be with the GF and doesnt have the balls to tell her? OR he doesnt know what he wants.. any other opinions?

he wants a threesome...

[Spaz]

he wants a threesome...

honestly... he is more than likely a swinger...

[chuck4345]

i agree3 some

[ls1blackbeauty98]

my new anthem:



After all you put me through
You'd think I'd despise you
But in the end I wanna thank you
'Cause you made me that much stronger

Well I, thought I knew you
Thinking, that you were true
Guess I, I couldn't trust
Called your bluff, time is up
'Cause I've had enough
You were, there by my side
Always, down for the ride
But your, joy ride just came down in flames
'Cause your greed sold me out of shame, mmhmm

After all of the stealing and cheating
You probably think that I hold resentment for you
But, uh uh, oh no, you're wrong
'Cause if it wasn't for all that you tried to do
I wouldn't know just how capable I am to pull through
So I wanna say thank you, cause it...

Makes me that much stronger
Makes me work a little bit harder
It makes me that much wiser
So thanks for making me a fighter
Made me learn a little bit faster
Made my skin a little bit thicker
Makes me that much smarter
So thanks for making me a fighter

Oh, ohh

Never, saw it coming
All of, your backstabbing
Just so, you could cash in
On a good thing before I realized your game
I heard, you're going around
Playing, the victim now
But don't, even begin
Feeling I'm the one to blame
'Cause you dug your own grave, uh huh

After all of the fights and the lies cause you're wanted to haunt me
But that won't work anymore
Uh, no more, oh no, it's over
'Cause if it wasn't for all of your torture
I wouldn't know how to be this way now, and never back down
So I wanna say thank you

'Cause it makes me that much stronger
Makes me work a little bit harder
Makes me that much wiser
So thanks for making me a fighter
Made me learn a little bit faster
Made my skin a little bit thicker
It makes me that much smarter
So thanks for making me a fighter

How could this man I thought I knew
Turn out to be unjust, so cruel
Could only see the good in you
Pretended not to see the truth
You tried to hide your lies, disguise yourself
Through living in denial
But in the end you'll see
You won't stop me

I am a fighter and I
I ain't goin' stop
There is no turning back
I've had enoughhhhhh

Makes me that much stronger
Makes me work a little bit harder
It makes me that much wiser
So thanks for making me a fighter
Made me learn a little bit faster
Made my skin a little bit thicker
Makes me that much smarter
So thanks for making me a fighter

Thought I would forget
But I, I remember
I'll remember, I'll remember

'Cause it makes me that much stronger
Makes me work a little bit harder
It makes me that much wiser
So thanks for making me a fighter
Made me learn a little bit faster
Made my skin a little bit thicker
Makes me that much smarter
So thanks for making me a fighter

[67CamaroRSSS]

Did this happen to you??????

[third_shift|studios]

heres the situation: You have a girlfriend.

If you wanted to be with that girl, would you invite your ex girlfriend to hang out and "be alone" for an hour? I think the answer is SSSSOOOO obvious but id love to hear what yall have to say...

it takes accurate timing to pull that shit off.

[ls1blackbeauty98]

cant wait till keith sees this thread.. im gonna get it.

[SiggyZ]

I disagree with the swinger bit.

[gwballin]

I am friends with most of my ex’s and it is not uncommon for me to hang out/spend quality time with them even if I am dating another girl.

It is not at all a refection on the girl I am currently dating that I want to maintain a friendship with my ex’s.

The ex is always aware that I am seeing someone new and if she is still interested in sex I am always willing to oblige.

[Spaz]

cant wait till keith sees this thread.. im gonna get it.

in the butt!!!

[Spaz]

I disagree with the swinger bit.

i have some good friends who are swingers that constantly do shit like that...

[ls1blackbeauty98]

[QUOTE=gwballin;1410656]I am friends with most of my ex’s and it is not uncommon for me to hang out/spend quality time with them even if I am dating another girl.

It is not at all a refection on the girl I am currently dating that I want to maintain a friendship with my ex’s.

The ex is always aware that I am seeing someone new and if she is still interested in sex I am always willing to oblige.[/QUOTE]

i dont agree with that at all, if ure with a girl... u shouldnt be having sex with ur exes, that means ure not into your current girlfriend...and therefore u shouldnt be with her.

[86 IROC-Z]

heres the situation: You have a girlfriend.

If you wanted to be with that girl, would you invite your ex girlfriend to hang out and "be alone" for an hour? I think the answer is SSSSOOOO obvious but id love to hear what yall have to say...

I'm not sure if I understand completely. When you say, "If you wanted to be with that girl", are you talking about the current girlfriend or the ex, and do you mean physically be with them at a point in time (hanging out) or more theoretically as in caring about them/serious relationship, etc?

[gwballin]

i dont agree with that at all, if ure with a girl... u shouldnt be having sex with ur exes, that means ure not into your current girlfriend...and therefore u shouldnt be with her.

I understand that from the view point of a woman (not making judgments, just recognizing the difference in thought) you may see things this way.

However, this is not a zero sum equation. I can have a physical relationship with girl B while still being "into" girl A. One does not detract from the other.

[ls1blackbeauty98]

I'm not sure if I understand completely. When you say, "If you wanted to be with that girl", are you talking about the current girlfriend or the ex, and do you mean physically be with them at a point in time (hanging out) or more theoretically as in caring about them/serious relationship, etc?

i mean i dont think u care about/wanna be in a relationship with the current girlfriend if ure making alone time with the ex. hopefully that clears up what im trying to say.

[ls1blackbeauty98]

I understand that from the view point of a woman (not making judgments, just recognizing the difference in thought) you may see things this way.

However, this is not a zero sum equation. I can have a physical relationship with girl B while still being "into" girl A. One does not detract from the other.

men and women do think differently. you think the exact opposite of me which is ok, but this definitely shows how different men and women think.