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    Married couples with seperate checking accts.?

    Is there anybody out there that has a seperate checking acount from there signicant other? Does it work? Pros/cons?

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    Lol.

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    It worked for me.

    We had our own personal accounts......then set one up for the household & placed a set percentage of our paychecks in it each week.

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    I have known several couples that do this...Your bank account...Mine and Our account. We been married 21 years, we only have one account (which the wife maintains). But I do get an allowance..ehehehe

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    i wouldn't do that, bitch aint spending all of my money.. im not married tho so maybe one day i will get trapped

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    I have always thought that having a single account kinda shows dedication to the marriage, or like wise for a seperate acct. My wife says not at all.

    Bob S.

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    works great for us. My wife is horible with money so I pay all the bills. She gives me her share of the bills and I pay them through my checking account. She then gets her own to do what she wants.

    Like I said works outstanding for us and I never have to answer what or where my money goes.

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    Jay,

    Since you said she is horrible with money...what happens if you need to help her out? If you don't mind me asking how long have you been married?

    Bob s.

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    I use to when we were first married. I made more money but then combined everything. Now she makes more money than me so it all good.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 1 BAD BIRD View Post
    Jay,

    Since you said she is horrible with money...what happens if you need to help her out? If you don't mind me asking how long have you been married?

    Bob s.
    Been married almost 4 years. If she needs help I help her. No biggy, But I make almost 3 times more than she does. We each get our own spending money to do what ever we want to do with it.

    Every year I always let her have her last 2 paychecks of the year to spend on x-mass. So she is happy.

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    when I said I pay all the bills, I mean all the bills includeing gas, food, entertainment. She gives me most of her paycheck and she keeps 250-300 a month to blow on ? whatever she wants, Most of the time her kids, (My step kids).

    I take care of the rest so she doesn't have to worry about anything. haveing 2 checking accounts works really well for us. That way she can not bounce any checks that the bills will be comeing out of.

    She is happy with the arrangement, I take care of her kids so she really doesn't care if she has that much spending money or not. I don't have any kids so most of my spare $ goes into my cars.
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    That is kind of what we are looking at.

    Bob s.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 1 BAD BIRD View Post
    I have always thought that having a single account kinda shows dedication to the marriage, or like wise for a seperate acct. My wife says not at all.

    Bob S.

    i agree with your wife, people should have their own money.
    also a marriage can fail no matter how much dedication a person has.

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    Have the same thing here as Jay. Works well. At one time had a joint account. I never saw any of it. wife spent it as fast as it came in. Now we put in based on a percentage. I then get to save for what I want and she can do the same. No arguements about who is spending what on what.

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    Mama keeps all the money. I dont even know where it all is...dont care....I havent paid a bill in 26+ years.....She gives me $100 every Monday morning for walking around money....and I have a few credit cards....dont know shit about nothing else...I do all the investments and shit...but Mama keeps the books. Her and her boyfriend are doing well I am told

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sarge View Post
    Her and her boyfriend are doing well I am told
    she been stingy with me in reguards to your money

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    If you let them start working with money, pretty soon they take your dick and never let you have it again.

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    i always had my own account.

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    Quote Originally Posted by nhraformula View Post
    she been stingy with me in reguards to your money
    I'll have a word with her.

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