Love

aaron8409 · 04-30-2006, 05:07 PM

My friend believes that you must want to see the person that you are in a relationship with 7 days a week to be in love. If you don't want to see them everyday then he thinks there is no way you can love them.

**CaptainCaveMan** · 04-30-2006, 05:13 PM

Bullshit. I love my wife and my kid, but goddamn sometimes i need some time for myself.

**Modulistic** · 04-30-2006, 05:59 PM

love is something that happens long time

zleeper z · 04-30-2006, 06:29 PM

Most everyone needs their time alone in a relationship, I know i do.

It will be interesting to see the poll results considering the majority of the members are guys. I wonder what the the ending results would be if the majority of the voters were female?

**J3ff** · 04-30-2006, 07:41 PM

I think he's right.

I was in love with a great girl for two years, and I wanted to see her EVERY day, and even a year after we broke it off, I still think about her atleast once a day, and wish i could see her.

You guys who are voting NO need to pay attention to where he says "WANT TO SEE" not actually seeing the person.

**Bigrus** · 04-30-2006, 07:43 PM

Originally Posted by zleeper z

I wonder what the the ending results would be if the majority of the voters were female?

99% yes the 1% no would be an error or fat chick who is cool just hearing his voice over the phone while he is at a strip club because she is that desperate.

I say no i voted yes on accident

Anyways any person who has to see thier loved one each and everyday to be in love is an obsessive person who usually can burn out a relationship very fast.

**Bigrus** · 04-30-2006, 07:44 PM

Originally Posted by J3ff

I think he's right.

I was in love with a great girl for two years, and I wanted to see her EVERY day, and even a year after we broke it off, I still think about her atleast once a day, and wish i could see her.

You guys who are voting NO need to pay attention to where he says "WANT TO SEE" not actually seeing the person.

Obsessed much?

BIGRED Z · 04-30-2006, 08:02 PM

In the beginning of a relationship, it's like you never want to be separated. But later, people need time alone, or to spend time with their friends. Sure, I miss Ron if I don't see him. But to have to be with everyday isn't love, it's obsessive.

In fact tonight, I had to work, so Ron took a road trip with his best bud that had to drive 3 hours away to his Dad's house to sign over a car title. Sure I miss him, but I had to work anyway, and he needs time with his friends. Tomorrow he will come home in time to go to work tomorrow night so I won't see him much tomorrow either.

Lori

zleeper z · 04-30-2006, 08:19 PM

Originally Posted by Bigrus

I say no i voted yes on accident

**Sassy Cassie** · 04-30-2006, 09:16 PM

Originally Posted by CaptainCaveMan

Bullshit. I love my wife and my kid, but goddamn sometimes i need some time for myself.

**Liquifire** · 05-01-2006, 03:30 AM

Cassie...........for the sake of all mankind, please change the avatar back to the nice A$$...........everyone needs time alone and if you can't be without your SO for one day, then you are obsessed. You can have fun with others and still be in love.

**Sassy Cassie** · 05-01-2006, 04:29 AM

Originally Posted by Liquifire

Cassie...........for the sake of all mankind, please change the avatar back to the nice A$$...........

No love for the big booty hoes?

**NICKLE57** · 05-01-2006, 06:24 AM

I would say no to the question. Love is measurable by each individual different. It has to do more with the way you are brought up and your views on relationships and there isn't any measuring stick that you can put on someone's love.

However I have been married 14 years as of last Wednesday and there hasn't been a day I didn't want to be with her. I really don't need "me time" or "friend time".

**J3ff** · 05-01-2006, 06:42 AM

There is a HUGE difference between "WANTING" to be with someone everyday, and actually seeing her everyday.

When I fall in love, you bet I want to see her everyday. However, I do not see her everyday, I think that's healthy, if you ever dont WANT to see her, ya gotta get someone else.

**SexOnWheels** · 05-01-2006, 08:08 AM

I say no, but not too much time apart.

**odinsonthor** · 05-01-2006, 09:48 AM

Originally Posted by Sassy Cassie

Whats weird about it?
Truth is, that is true. Love my significant one dearly and children.
But I also like to be on the xbox and messing with my ls1.

Everyone needs time to themselves.

**NICKLE57** · 05-01-2006, 09:54 AM

Originally Posted by odinsonthor

Whats weird about it?
Truth is, that is true. Love my significant one dearly and children.
But I also like to be on the xbox and messing with my ls1.

Everyone needs time to themselves.

She said Werd not Weird.

**odinsonthor** · 05-01-2006, 09:59 AM

Originally Posted by NICKLE57

She said Werd not Weird.

Sorry Sassy....Did not see the little word.

**Sassy Cassie** · 05-01-2006, 10:04 AM

Originally Posted by odinsonthor

Sorry Sassy....Did not see the little word.

No worries.

**SSwt00SS** · 05-01-2006, 10:27 AM

i voted "NO", you should not want to see your love everyday. if your lover is not secure enough in themselves to know, trust and realize that you love them, time together or time apart, then being suckered into 'wanting' to see them is a guilt trip put on your by your partner. a guilt trip that is ment for their own self satisfaction and gradification because they themselves are not strong enough as a person to be self dependant. its along the same lines as: If you love me you'll do this, or if you care about me you'd to that. that is a sign of weakness. using love as a weapon for one to get their way is not good and should raise a RED FLAG immediately that other person is not for you. if that is the case HAUL ASS out fo there and file that past relationship under "E" for Experience, and move on to something better. even if there is no one else having your piece of sanity and nothing at all is better than being in a dead end, meaningless realtionship with a weak person.