I'm turning 40 this weekend...

**flat-top** · 01-19-2012, 11:28 AM

Yup, I'll be 40 Sunday. Tell the truth, I feel anxious about it. Even a little sick. I just want the day to pass.

Almost 40, single, not dating anyone, homeowner, no issues (except a health scare years ago) no credit card debt, no drugs, decent job with 2 part time jobs.

...I thought things would be different by now.

Anyone else?

**0rion** · 01-19-2012, 11:40 AM

do you own any cats?

**FasstChevys** · 01-19-2012, 11:54 AM

Why does your age in your profile say that you're 42?

**flat-top** · 01-19-2012, 12:02 PM

I never put in the correct DOB for security sakes.

no cats...:P

**BrntWS6** · 01-19-2012, 12:12 PM

That sucks....2.5 years till I turn 40 and I'm not really looking forward to it. If I were you I'd do something really special to remember the day...maybe choke yourself while jerking off.

LOL

**FasstChevys** · 01-19-2012, 12:24 PM

Originally Posted by BrntWS6

That sucks....2.5 years till I turn 40 and I'm not really looking forward to it. If I were you I'd do something really special to remember the day...maybe choke yourself while jerking off.

LOL

**Lunatikgixxer** · 01-19-2012, 12:46 PM

i still have 20 years until im 40. Good luck lol. Take yourself out for some beers

**0rion** · 01-19-2012, 12:54 PM

40 wasn't near the shitty b-day for me that 38 was. For some reason when I turned 38 I had the worst week ever.....was sick as hell that week and just felt old as shit in general. When I turned 40 it wasn't any big deal.

**SeVeReDiStOrTiOn** · 01-19-2012, 09:21 PM

Do you have all your hair? If you do being single in your 40's won't be so bad. I'll be 32 soon and i'm starting to bald..sucks ass. Someone was telling me you can get the sides lasered off so there's not a shadow

**Smittro** · 01-19-2012, 09:31 PM

Originally Posted by BrntWS6

That sucks....2.5 years till I turn 40 and I'm not really looking forward to it. If I were you I'd do something really special to remember the day...maybe choke yourself while jerking off.

LOL

LMAO!!!

**Nowhereman** · 01-20-2012, 04:26 AM

I'm tellin ya, you guys scare me sometimes.

**tnthub** · 01-20-2012, 06:41 AM

30 and 40 were no problem. 50 seemed the other side of the fence.

**Nowhereman** · 01-20-2012, 09:19 AM

Originally Posted by tnthub

30 and 40 were no problem. 50 seemed the other side of the fence.

HA, that's nothing.
I'm looking down the gun barrel at 60 in a few years.
Now that, is freaking me out.

**KahanaReef** · 01-20-2012, 11:06 AM

Originally Posted by tnthub

30 and 40 were no problem. 50 seemed the other side of the fence.

I'd have to agree there. 30, 40 and even 45 were a breeze. It's the next decade marker that I think will throw me for a loop

It sucks when you start to look and feel your age

**Spaz** · 01-20-2012, 11:52 AM

Originally Posted by flat-top

Yup, I'll be 40 Sunday. Tell the truth, I feel anxious about it. Even a little sick. I just want the day to pass.

Almost 40, single, not dating anyone, homeowner, no issues (except a health scare years ago) no credit card debt, no drugs, decent job with 2 part time jobs.

...I thought things would be different by now.

Anyone else?

happy soon to be b-day bud...

life is meant to be lived... live it how you want with out the opinions of others being a factor...

**tnthub** · 01-20-2012, 01:51 PM

Originally Posted by KahanaReef

It sucks when you start to look and feel your age

I do have a full head of hair (although it is gray) but little stuff, like getting a bone spur in my knee and hobbling around like an old fart gets annoying,
although I did shovel my driveway today.

Also, the advantage to looking old is at some point it is easier to get away with "pull my finger" jokes.

Additionally, just because I look older and have some aches and pains, there is no rule that says I cannot act young. 53 going on 16...

**Nowhereman** · 01-20-2012, 02:35 PM

Originally Posted by tnthub

I do have a full head of hair (although it is gray) but little stuff, like getting a bone spur in my knee and hobbling around like an old fart gets annoying,
although I did shovel my driveway today.

Also, the advantage to looking old is at some point it is easier to get away with "pull my finger" jokes.

Additionally, just because I look older and have some aches and pains, there is no rule that says I cannot act young. 53 going on 16...

Got ya beat there.
My wife says I'm 58 going on 2.

**35th-ANV-SS** · 01-20-2012, 03:03 PM

I'm 33. Own 2 nice cars. One of which most of you know well. I own my own house. Excellent job. Pretty damn good looking. No kids or other baggage as a single man. Zero credit card debt and in about 6 months I'll officially own my DD. Pretty well educated; more than most people I'd say.

I thought for sure I'd be married by late 20's and have a family at my age by now. Living what I considered to be the "American Dream". Hell, I was always with a girl from 16-30 just about.

Truth of the matter is, after dating around for about 1.5 years and seeing what's out there these days in the form of single women and relationships, I'm pretty damn happy being single.

As Spaz says, live life man. Enjoy it while you can. It doesn't take a woman by your side to make you happy. Be happy in your own skin and the rest will fall in place in time. Maybe not in the time you expect it to, but it will if it's supposed to happen.

**KahanaReef** · 01-20-2012, 03:15 PM

Originally Posted by tnthub

Additionally, just because I look older and have some aches and pains, there is no rule that says I cannot act young. 53 going on 16...

**0rion** · 01-20-2012, 04:20 PM

Originally Posted by 35th-ANV-SS

I'm 33. Own 2 nice cars. One of which most of you know well. I own my own house. Excellent job. Pretty damn good looking. No kids or other baggage as a single man. Zero credit card debt and in about 6 months I'll officially own my DD. Pretty well educated; more than most people I'd say.

I thought for sure I'd be married by late 20's and have a family at my age by now. Living what I considered to be the "American Dream". Hell, I was always with a girl from 16-30 just about.

Truth of the matter is, after dating around for about 1.5 years and seeing what's out there these days in the form of single women and relationships, I'm pretty damn happy being single.

As Spaz says, live life man. Enjoy it while you can. It doesn't take a woman by your side to make you happy. Be happy in your own skin and the rest will fall in place in time. Maybe not in the time you expect it to, but it will if it's supposed to happen.

you need some cats......