If everything else is great in the relationship, but no...

[White Knight]

Ok, here's a topic that I was talking about to the guys at work. Let's say you met a girl who was pretty, good body, great personality, good sex, etc. You like here a lot, but she will never give head. Is that ok, or do you move on? 6 guys at work say it matters, and 5 of us (yeah, I'm in the 5) say it doesn't matter if you like her enough and everything else is good. So what is it guys? Does it matter or not? Please, no half answers like "I'll try to talk her into it" or "I will keep her, and cheat with someone who does." It's either you stay with her and don't get it, or you dump her. What is it?

[SeVeReDiStOrTiOn]

The confusing part in what you wrote is you said the sex is good yet she doesn't give head...that's not good sex bro. So what you really have is a hot chic with a good personality that sucks in bed...and not in a good way Yea i'd dump her.

[666ws6]

Well, what is her reason as to why? Have you asked? Tell her it bothers you a bit? Perhaps there is some hidden baggage there, or "gag" reflesh response she can't handle.

[White Knight]

Well, what is her reason as to why? Have you asked? Tell her it bothers you a bit? Perhaps there is some hidden baggage there, or "gag" reflesh response she can't handle.

There's no one to ask. Just a random question that popped up at work. The first two guys I asked thought I was insane when I said I didn't care. Then the polling data came in when I asked the rest of the guys and it was almost 50-50. Trying to get more opinions here.

[KMdef9]

Per forum rules, pic of said girl is required before any further action can take place.

[TLS_Addict]

It depends....would I be able to get head from other women?

[pajeff02]

Per forum rules, pic of said girl is required before any further action can take place.

^^ This. Rules are rules.

[White Knight]

It depends....would I be able to get head from other women?

Nope, already said so in my op.

[SeVeReDiStOrTiOn]

I think it's just a hypothetical question guys

[White Knight]

I think it's just a hypothetical question guys

Yup.

[GTP231]

People stay married

[pajeff02]

People stay married

Not really. They get married, stay married for a while, then get divorced and do it all over again. I have been practicing long enough now that I have former clients coming back for their third divorce. I'll have to start polling repeat clients on whether or not their spouse had the ability to suck start a .50 cal. and if not, was it a factor in their decision to get divorced.

[GTP231]

Not really. They get married, stay married for a while, then get divorced and do it all over again. I have been practicing long enough now that I have former clients coming back for their third divorce. I'll have to start polling repeat clients on whether or not their spouse had the ability to suck start a .50 cal. and if not, was it a factor in their decision to get divorced.

[pajeff02]

Thought you'd like that.

[35th-ANV-SS]

First marriage success rate is now a dismal 40%, which means 60% get divorced on their first try. Guess what, the number gets statistically higher the more times you're married. Pretty sad actually. It's around 75% for third marriages.

To answer the question in a truthful manner, it wouldn't matter to me. If a woman is gorgeous, a great companion, supports you in every way imaginable, is faithful, and puts out in other ways, then not giving head isn't the end of the world.

It all depends on the woman. I've had plenty who rocked it ten-fold in bed, but sucked at giving a BJ. On the flip-side I've had some who were great at giving a BJ and sucked when it came to getting under the sheets.

If the person "truly" loves you, I don't really think this is a legitimate question as they would want to do anything in their power to satisfy you and make you happy.

If anyone here would like to give me shit for this response, feel free, I'll gladly give you an infraction

[jrbonds]

Since I won't do that deed (due to some trauma) I noticed in a couple relationships over the years, my ex husband found it else where. I think it matters.

[0rion]

how did a BJ thread suddenly become about marriage??? That's why brides smile on their wedding day......they know they've given their last blowjob.

[0rion]

for the record......if getting a BJ is the determining factor in you breaking up with someone you weren't in love in the first place.

[mark21742]

Shannon will go down on me in a heartbeat, but she thinks pussies are nasty (her's is clean ) so she doesnt lrt me go down on her....unless she is extremely drunk lol but on well, I love her and plan on keeping her.

[TLS_Addict]

I think I could stay with her.......

I had something really fantastic to respond with but I forgot it.