HOW to search people, phone #S CHEATING WIFE

**RATCHETMASTER** · 11-13-2008, 08:36 AM

how do you google someone??? to get info on them?

How about getting info for phone #s? if it is unlisted? or cell phones?

oK, I started a new thread on this for this question because I thought people may not be interested in my dirty laundry, but if you are, here is a link to the info.

http://www.ls1.com/forums/showthread...hlight=divorce

I have access to ALL phone #s she calls except on that says # blocked. She doesn't spend hours on the phone (cell phone) but she spends all her time at work (she just got a job in August) and she could be making calls from there.

I don't know several #s (probably 6) and she constantly checks her voice mail. (not usual for her)

SO IF I HAVE A NAME (SOME I DO) HOW DO YOU GET ALL THE INFO ON THAT PERSON? I HAVE HEARD OF PEOPLE GOOGLING SOMEONE AND GETTING ALL KINDS OF INFO.
HOW DO YOU DO THAT??

For phone #s I have done the dexknows search and some are unlisted. Should I join one of the get info on phone # ads??

What else can I do to find out who she is talking to??

Other than hire a P. I.? IF she is cheating on me (probably more or a relationship but not physical because she probably not bring herself to do that because of moral convictions, but that would not stop her from "talking" to someone!!
Thanks

I had said I KNEW she was NOT cheating, but I know have doubts (my attorney kind of opened my eyes that it is HIGHLY likely since I don't and haven't ever cheated on her and the fact that I don't drink, do drugs, party, etc.

My att. feels that at our ages (she is 48) that there would HAVE to be a reason for moving out and taking the kids, etc. She said it doesn't matter, but it is usually that my wife has found someone else!!
The att. said that even if I was a terrible husband, that she still would NOT have left because at this age, you get used to things and put up with little crap and live with it. And there is no BIG crap!! I don't hit her or anything . . . we argue about MONEY!! I make it, she spends MORE than I make!!!

So the reason for the above questions.

**310stanger** · 11-13-2008, 08:42 AM

The woman has a spending disease man, do whatever you can to get rid of her and come out on top and let her start draining some other suckers bank account.

**Spaz** · 11-13-2008, 08:47 AM

you best bet is to hire a private detective.

**310stanger** · 11-13-2008, 08:52 AM

Originally Posted by Spaz

you best bet is to hire a private detective.

I'd agree, its time to call Magnum P.I. Him and T.C will figure it out

**B34M3R** · 11-13-2008, 09:05 AM

There are online record sites... you pay them some money, and they will pull all the public records on the information you have.... that would be a cheaper first step before going for a PI

**DrMilhouse** · 11-13-2008, 09:05 AM

Stop pussy footing around about it.

Move swiftly on this. She's been planning this. She's got a huge head start on you.

I'm sure that there's some lingering feeling that you care about her. Those are thoughts and feelings and cutesy stuff. Work in REALITY not emotions.

Stop toying around with the idea of "maybe she's not". Whether or not she's cheating on you, she's still effing you over. Don't put up with it. Stop being the "nice guy" about this.

Stand up for yourself.

**310stanger** · 11-13-2008, 09:24 AM

Originally Posted by DrMilhouse

Stop pussy footing around about it.

Move swiftly on this. She's been planning this. She's got a huge head start on you.

I'm sure that there's some lingering feeling that you care about her. Those are thoughts and feelings and cutesy stuff. Work in REALITY not emotions.

Stop toying around with the idea of "maybe she's not". Whether or not she's cheating on you, she's still effing you over. Don't put up with it. Stop being the "nice guy" about this.

Stand up for yourself.

true words. I think once you get over your wife and she has completely drained you, you are gonna wish you layed the smack down on her.

**Spaz** · 11-13-2008, 09:29 AM

Originally Posted by B34M3R

There are online record sites... you pay them some money, and they will pull all the public records on the information you have.... that would be a cheaper first step before going for a PI

$15.00 for a print out of info that does tell you shit... due to the privacy policy act it will not tell you jack shit... a private detective can do far more research and give better and more accurate information...

**DrMilhouse** · 11-13-2008, 09:41 AM

by the way, if a PI costs you $5k and saves you $50k or more, that is a pretty good investment.

**RATCHETMASTER** · 11-13-2008, 10:18 AM

What about this google crap?? People have always said they google themselves and see all kinds of crap about themselves. But I guess i don't understand how to do this. HOW DO YOU DO THIS?

Yes, I know . . . I am standing up . . . I am filing as soon as I can get all the FREAKING paper work filled out!! I have to know stuff that I have to find out . . . for court papers . . . and the info is not handy and it has to be accurate since they are court papers.

**bigrondownhiller** · 11-13-2008, 10:22 AM

There are reverse phone number lookups on the internet. They cost money but I dont know anyone with any experience with them. Does she check her phone voicemail or work one? If the cell phone is still linked to you, you can call customer service and say you forgot your password. Then you can get her voicemail messages.

**JwMonE99** · 11-13-2008, 10:36 AM

If you have numbers with no names then call and pretend your looking for one of your buddies. Once they tell you, you have the wrong number ask who it is and 95% of the time they will give you their real name. Thats a small start. If you have names and need information try searching their name on google or myspace. It shouldnt be that difficult. Let us knw what you find out after that.

**DrMilhouse** · 11-13-2008, 10:45 AM

you google their name, you type in their name into google. Either you get something, or you don't.

One of the people my wife used to work with was convicted of murdering her child. You google her name, that shows up with a bunch of news articles.

If you google me, I've had a home forclosed.

If there's some stuff out there for someone that's public record or that type of thing, it'll turn up.

Googling someone won't show that they're cheating on some.

Getting other things is pretty random. Happens from time to time, but basically is science fiction.

**Tide** · 11-13-2008, 10:58 AM

Whose name is her cellular in?

**c5z28** · 11-13-2008, 11:09 AM

That or you hire a htiman-did you know fresno is only a 3 hour drive for me

**c5z28** · 11-13-2008, 11:10 AM

Originally Posted by Tide

Whose name is her cellular in?

good call you can look at the history when the bill comes in.

**ls1blackbeauty98** · 11-13-2008, 11:15 AM

i honestly dont think u can get phone records but i know if u google a number example: 610-269-XXXX and google that (obviously with actual numbers for the Xes), whose name the phone is under and an address will come up.

trust me.

sorry i just read more of the original post.

OMG DUMP THAT GIRL! who wants to live the rest of their lives thinking their wife is cheating..... obviously u have a reason to believe she is.....

good luck

**2000 SS Beast** · 11-13-2008, 11:31 AM

Grab her by the throat, give her a few good falcon punches till she talks

**knightryda01** · 11-13-2008, 11:51 AM

Honestly does it matter if she is cheating? The marriage is odviously over.
Will it make her look worse in court.... yes
Will it have an outcome in your divorce.... Probally not. (check your state laws)

The judge don't care that you are their. Your just another number. He will be more annoyed in the fact that he has to listen to you guys testify about how the other person sucks for hours upon hours. etc.

Save your money on a p.i. I doubt it will have any positive impact for you.

**310stanger** · 11-13-2008, 11:53 AM

Originally Posted by knightryda01

Honestly does it matter if she is cheating? The marriage is odviously over.
Will it make her look worse in court.... yes
Will it have an outcome in your divorce.... Probally not. (check your state laws)

The judge don't care that you are their. Your just another number. He will be more annoyed in the fact that he has to listen to you guys testify about how the other person sucks for hours upon hours. etc.

Save your money on a p.i. I doubt it will have any positive impact for you.

Proof of adultery isn't good in court? I'm not married, but thats the first i've ever of this. I'm almost positive if he proves shes fucking around and she's with someone else, that guy is a witness and it shows shes not alone. That is a big factor on how much money she would get if he doesnt have a prenup.