How do you pick up a girl @ a bar?

[third_shift|studios]

I'm engaged, so i'm asking on behalf of a buddy of my fiance's who just turned 21. I took him out for a few drinks; he turned to me and asked "how do you pick up a girl in a bar?" I said "i honestly don't have a clue?"

So....let's hear it.

[0rion]

Back in my single days I would just get 'em drunk. After all, you are in a bar.

My buddy scored more ass than any 1 person I've ever known. How did he do it? He actually liked to dance. Evidently girls like guys that dance. Personally, I would just stick to my plan of getting them sloppy drunk.

[Bigrus]

Usually 3 fingers and then i put my shoulder into it.

[nhraformula]

you pick them up by not trying. tell you friend to go and hang with his friends, pickin up if it happens is a plus.
also a good attitude is a good thing

[Sarge]

Act like you dont give a shit if they are there or not. Keep scratching your knee like your dick is there. "Adjust" your knee area after scratching to improve effect.

[joerockhead]

You walk up to her, say "Hello"
If she replies with a Hello, you have a good start.
However, you have to alos notice if she is saying Hello to be polite, or if she is interested.
If she seems interested, ask to buy her a drink.
If she accpetes, introduce yourself and talk to her.

Let it flow from there.

[Sarge]

Ok I'llbe serious. But the knee/pecker thing may not be a bad idea....anyway...
Just be yourself. A lady can sense your nervous and that makes her nervous. So just be yourself...dont try and act like somebody you aint....

[pecha]

"nice shoes, wanna fuck?" use it and score

[Mr. Luos]

Rufies.

[onebadblonde]

hi guys! thought i could shed some light on this subject,i was a bartender for a while and i watched what happened closely ! i think you need to try to make eye contact first!! if she gives you a couple looks your way {without making ugly faces like dont even....}then tell the bar tender to send her a drink from you - if shes interested she should come to you and thank you and conversation should flow from there... if not then pick the really trashed ones he he he

[third_shift|studios]

Rufies.

[Patriot Performance]

Ask them if they have ever done it in a car with T-Tops.... Then lead them to the parking lot.

[Nastyfoot]

hi guys! thought i could shed some light on this subject,i was a bartender for a while and i watched what happened closely ! i think you need to try to make eye contact first!! if she gives you a couple looks your way {without making ugly faces like dont even....}then tell the bar tender to send her a drink from you - if shes interested she should come to you and thank you and conversation should flow from there... if not then pick the really trashed ones he he he

Shees! A woman expecting a drink to be bought for her. How many of you actually go out for a night out on the town for free drinks.

I say try talking to her first, feel her out, and then maybe buy her a drink. But to send one her way? Ummmm, no thanks.

[onebadblonde]

well im just posting what ive seen has worked the best... its not really expected by women but a nice gesture thats if she already seems interested....not every woman in the place!! and actually refering to me as you women isnt to nice since i have been married for 8 years and have not been bought drinks by you guys. just showing a simple observation

[third_shift|studios]

ok, new twist

bars and clubs are loud as hell: how the F do you get around that??? Not really great for "making conversation"


side note: i hate when girls say "oh, i'm just here with my friends"

[onebadblonde]

you could try dancing with a hot girl ...note: if she trys her best to dance w/ someone else, shut that operation down!!! i know here in sc guys are really blunt and to the point even seen some grab a** going on just out of the blue - some gals like that i guess? if the guy is on the shy side try going to a quieter place like a pub or something

[Speedy_Gonzales]

Act like you dont give a shit if they are there or not. Keep scratching your knee like your dick is there. "Adjust" your knee area after scratching to improve effect.

i have to scratch my ankle

[310stanger]

I go to the bar a decent amount of times a month and this question interests me as well. In my experiences its a numbers game and its jus a matter of having balls. The problem I have had is the bars by me are very loud, very crowded and its hard to get a feel for who a girl is with and if shes single or not. Hence key phrase here: have balls! finding the drunk chicks also helps big time. Use that to your advantage. The girl normally has all the advantage being that they expect the guy to make the moves. Im not really good at it but im working on it lol

[Sarge]

ok, new twist

bars and clubs are loud as hell: how the F do you get around that??? Not really great for "making conversation"


side note: i hate when girls say "oh, i'm just here with my friends"

Well now if I remember you took your GI Joe doll and your Barbie Doll....walked in a really loud club....dropped Joes pants....dropped Barbies undies....had Joe "mount" Barbie....then wrote down phone numbers of all the girls that asked what they were doing.

[third_shift|studios]

Well now if I remember you took your GI Joe doll and your Barbie Doll....walked in a really loud club....dropped Joes pants....dropped Barbies undies....had Joe "mount" Barbie....then wrote down phone numbers of all the girls that asked what they were doing.

attention, you in the gto...step away from the pipe.