Dumped and Depressed

**Rikki_SeVeN** · 07-19-2007, 05:28 AM

well it all comes down to this... I got dumped after 3 and a half years...college relationship(just got done with it and am ready for graduation) ...with a simple reason that she just "got tired"... it smells fishy to me, I'm sure there's more... but whatever...I am still feeling the after effects and that was a full month ago... it's wierd that I've stayed so down for so long... haven't heard anything from her or nothing since... what you guys think? and the gals of the site...what's ur opinion on the matter?...

should I just get over it...

Try my hardest to get her back

...

or just let it be...and let time do it's work...?

**Nastyfoot** · 07-19-2007, 05:43 AM

your 22, get over it and cast your reel into the pond

**Rikki_SeVeN** · 07-19-2007, 05:44 AM

I lost most of my hunting abilities...in the process of those 3 years... so it's like releasing a Tamed Tiger...back into the wild...

**Nastyfoot** · 07-19-2007, 05:45 AM

Originally Posted by Rikki_SeVeN

I lost most of my hunting abilities...in the process of those 3 years... so it's like releasing a Tamed Tiger...back into the wild...

Yeah, but it's like breathing air.....Once you learn you never forget

**Rikki_SeVeN** · 07-19-2007, 05:46 AM

Originally Posted by Nastyfoot

Yeah, but it's like breathing air.....Once you learn you never forget

that's a good one... I'll try to remember it as I make my way into the world again...hehe

**SSwt00SS** · 07-19-2007, 05:50 AM

you're 22 man. you dont need to leave college tied down. go out and meet yourself a fine ass professional woman and go from there. forget about getting her back. her loss, so move on, besides youre better off without the drama. the '4 F's' my friend:

Find 'em
Fuck 'em
Free 'em
Forget 'em

**Rikki_SeVeN** · 07-19-2007, 05:51 AM

Originally Posted by SSwt00SS

you're 22 man. you dont need to leave college tied down. go out and meet yourself a fine ass professional woman and go from there. forget about getting her back. her loss, so move on. the '4 F's' my friend:

Find 'em
Fuck 'em
Free 'em
Forget 'em

LOL... yet another quote I will remember!...

**SleeperC5** · 07-19-2007, 05:53 AM

My honest opinion..... get over it and move on. There's a pretty good chance there's someone else. And trust me on this, if someone else is doing her..... YOU DON'T WANT HER BACK !

Go find several like this one and have ALOT of FUN !!

**SexOnWheels** · 07-19-2007, 05:54 AM

Use this time to make yourself better, stronger, and ready for the next one.

You have plenty of time to find the 'right one'

**Rikki_SeVeN** · 07-19-2007, 05:56 AM

I'm curently also trying to make my car (the camaro) be the focal point... you know...in order to keep my mind on something difrent...but the damn thing just wont cooperate...

**NE98LS1** · 07-19-2007, 06:05 AM

Originally Posted by Rikki_SeVeN

I'm curently also trying to make my car (the camaro) be the focal point... you know...in order to keep my mind on something difrent...but the damn thing just wont cooperate...

i bought my car after breaking up with a long term g/f...it is a good cure. gets your mind off it a little! plus, no more datese and crap, so think of all the money you'll have for mods!

!

**Rikki_SeVeN** · 07-19-2007, 06:16 AM

Originally Posted by NE98LS1

i bought my car after breaking up with a long term g/f...it is a good cure. gets your mind off it a little! plus, no more datese and crap, so think of all the money you'll have for mods!

!

I've owned the car for a year...and only gotten an intake... cause I never had money... I courently have $400 to spend...and the adjustable Panhard and Eibach's are on the way... but there's still trouble codes and leaks that keep me from fully enjoin it... plus... it was HER bro who used to work on it...

**third_shift|studios** · 07-19-2007, 06:27 AM

this is shitty SHITTY situation and it seems like girls do it all the time...they wait until we get out of college and don't have that instant access to a rebound down the hall.

I suggest the following:
1) find a hobby, one that will completely consume you. Since it's summer, i suggest volleyball, baseball, outdoor activities like biking/running.
2) immerse yourself with new people, join a professional club that has something to do with whatever your career is

The key is to MEET NEW PEOPLE! It's gonna burn for a while; 3.5 years, all of your college life, too many memories to even think you can flip a switch and turn them off. Just do as I said and you'll be fine. Good luck

**RavensFan19** · 07-19-2007, 07:46 AM

same thing happened to be bud.

came out of left field with it...turns out she was seeing some other dude behind my back.

Now, that isnt supposed to make you feel better...but the best thing to do is say "fuck it - her loss" and move on. It will take some time, but you'll meet someone else who is way better than the last one was AND this time you will be more aware of things before they happen and whatnot.

**Anthracis** · 07-19-2007, 07:53 AM

Forget the chick! Move on bro. Just go join a gym. Work out like crazy, save your money, and mod your car. You'll look good, feel great, you may meet another healthy woman, and you'll have a kick ass ride.

If this and the rest of the posts don't help...

...there's always the French Foreign Legion!

Good luck.

**Chaos** · 07-19-2007, 08:05 AM

well, let me tell you a story. (I'll make it short)

I was with my Ex-wife from 15 until we were 28 years old. now talk about going out there with out any "hunting skillz" I had none what so ever. But I still got more then my fair share. so don't worry about that.
And it does take time to get over, so just surround yourself with good friends and have fun.

And last but most importantly......thank the damn heavens that you didn't throw away your 20's with 1 girl.....this is the time that you really learn who you are, who you want and who you don't want. trust me in about 10 years it will all make sense.

**67CamaroRSSS** · 07-19-2007, 08:38 AM

Got any naked pix of her? Post them on the internet and then laugh at her! Me, I'm old, crotchety, been married twice (currently divorced) and don't give a damn about any women. At my age all I get are MILF's for short time stuff but it works for me.

**burnws6** · 07-19-2007, 08:40 AM

Originally Posted by 67CamaroRSSS

Got any naked pix of her? Post them on the internet and then laugh at her! Me, I'm old, crotchety, been married twice (currently divorced) and don't give a damn about any women. At my age all I get are MILF's for short time stuff but it works for me.

best advice ever.....

**Rikki_SeVeN** · 07-19-2007, 08:53 AM

Originally Posted by 67CamaroRSSS

Got any naked pix of her? Post them on the internet and then laugh at her! Me, I'm old, crotchety, been married twice (currently divorced) and don't give a damn about any women. At my age all I get are MILF's for short time stuff but it works for me.

damnit... !... I accidentally deleted them like a year ago!...doesn't that SUCK!... LOL

**cavpat** · 07-19-2007, 08:57 AM

It's easier said than done, but just try to get over it and move on. You're 22, single, and have a bada$$ car. Go have fun!

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