Does she want me?

**pecha** · 07-25-2006, 08:10 PM

So there is this girl at my work. She's a seasonal worker and just started working here. She studies rehabilitation or something like that. Anytime she looks at me she smiles, when she passes behind me she puts her hand on my lower back. She's a toucher - that's ok, nothing wierd right?

So today my boss sent her to a walk-in storage, then he sent me to get some other stuff. When I got there she was already leaving. I took a key from her and she said oh maybe you could help me find something. My d!ck got hard in like 3 seconds - too much pr0n, I guess

But nothing happened there except for some accidental touching. Later she asked me if I rode my bike to work, I said that yes, she then said I should take her for a ride, she loves motorcycles.
So anyway, is she sending signals or what? Opinions, please. And NO, I don't have any pictures of her

**Bigrus** · 07-25-2006, 08:14 PM

So regardless of what she thinks are you okay with an office relationship going bad? Females will act a fool at work and you can be fired over false claims.

BTW if you cannot tell she is waiting for you to ask her out i do not know what to tell you

**oneBADDz** · 07-25-2006, 08:19 PM

She's diggin your chili man

**derrinx** · 07-25-2006, 08:31 PM

haha umm yeah dude it sounds pretty obvious... but yeah sounds like trouble not worth loosing your job over

**shadegray** · 07-25-2006, 08:31 PM

There's no problems about work policies that don't let you date inside, right? You like her, just go for it. She's seasonal, so if it doesn't work out you won't be seeing her again later anyway. Just hit it.

**rbob93** · 07-25-2006, 09:24 PM

You have a woman...ditch her before it starts something you'll regret.

**pecha** · 07-25-2006, 10:19 PM

I'm taken and I would not cheat. Been there, done that - never again. And I don't think this girl - altho pretty and with a very nice, athletic body - would be better in bed.
I was just curious what you guys think. My self esteem is so low right now that even if she was giving me bj I'd dtill be thinking if that's not some mistake

**rbob93** · 07-26-2006, 02:20 AM

A low self esteem is a real tough one to deal with, and believe me, I know all about it.
(try being almost 60, losing your job, everything you own, ending up broke)

There is only one true way to find out and that would be to pursue it further.
You know the consequences of that.
You think your self esteem is low now, screw up what you have with the woman that you love and you'll know low self esteem!

I would say she is attracted to you. It seems she is also making attempts to see if you are attracted to her.
It may be a game to inflate her ego, but it may be genuine as well.

I think you have an exceptionally beautiful woman, as I've seen her pics.

Check your thoughts at the door and let this temptress know you are taken....NOW....before you talk yourself into an ego boost.

**TMF** · 07-26-2006, 06:17 AM

Pecha, what's up ? You have a very attractive girl (I've seen her pics). You musn't be satisfied in your relationship, if you're writing this thread huh ? We've all been down this road, sounds like you already. It's obvious this girl you work with wants you, it's only a matter of time till something happens. You never know where these things go, usually it's painfull for at least one of the parties. Keep us posted.......and oh yea, post pics too

**FuxOnTheFirstDate** · 07-26-2006, 06:26 AM

I've directed your girl to this thread, lol. You might as well ask this one out now, huh?

**ntimid8r** · 07-26-2006, 06:33 AM

Oh hell ya she's looking to play. It's Tahoe, she's there just for the summer during college break.

I know, I grew up in South Lake Tahoe and worked at Harrah's when I was a young sprout. Every summer college kids from all over the country come out to make a little money and have some fun. Ah-h-h good times.

**smilin assassin** · 07-26-2006, 06:49 AM

Sometimes doing nothing is doing everything grasshopper....

**pecha** · 07-26-2006, 02:16 PM

thanks guys for your replies.
I intentionally named this thread "Does she want me?" not "Should I hit it"
Hitting it is out of question, I was just curious as this would be an ego boost. I feel kinda down right now.
I'll try to get a pic of her with my phone for your viewing pleasure

**FuxOnTheFirstDate** · 07-26-2006, 02:19 PM

You do that. We never have enough meat beating material.

**Murder after Midnight** · 07-26-2006, 03:12 PM

Originally Posted by smilin assassin

Sometimes doing nothing is doing everything grasshopper....

Couldn't have said it any better myself
+1

**ReBop** · 07-26-2006, 03:47 PM

Yes, she is sending signals if what you wrote is accurate.

You will score with her if you do everything just right.

**StangKiller615** · 07-28-2006, 09:04 AM

Yeah, go on and make your move! She is throwing you all kinds of signals, she is just wating for you to take the bait!

**Tman** · 07-28-2006, 09:51 AM

Keep away...old saying..."Never shit where you eat"...work relationships are a pain when they turn sour (even if she is seasonal).

**Nastyfoot** · 07-28-2006, 10:18 AM

How many guys have dated a girl and thought" This one is a keeper, were gonna spend the rest of our lives together" only to be (dating) banging a different chick a year later.

You go for it Bud! Do it for mankind. Do it 'cause your a guy and because you can.

Have fun.