Dating help

[JonB]

Ok so heres the deal, basically I've got two girls that like me. One we will name D and the other J. Neither of which I know very well at all. One i've worked with for like 4 years and always thought was hot(but I had a gf for a long time so I did't really do anything about it). So recently I found out D like's me so we've hung out at like two parties one of which I meet the other girl J that likes me. Today D text me asking if I want to go have dinner. I say yes we go and everything went well with a little peck on the lips when we left. All the while I have plans with J for tommorow.

Now J I meet last week end at a party that D happened to be at(me and D did't plan this it was just kinda a mutual friends party) So I start of kinda chillin with D having some drinks. We flirt allitte here and there. Then I found out shes kinda talking to this other guy there. Then my buddy tells me this J girl likes me so I start chillin with her while D is off with the other guy shes talking to. Me and J flirt and share some good laughs and totally click. So its time for bed and me and J get comfy on the couch toghter while D is off with this other dude(Which I later find out shes in a locked room with this guy) Then D's guy leaves and she comes on the couch with me and J. Now really this is every guys dream 2 girls right? Wrong in this situation cause now I have to kinda just be nuetral. So I tried to stay in the middle but ended up in J lap and D on my lap. Me and J woke up a couple times(It was not very comfy with 3 people) and just kinda look in each others eyes(it was kinda hot like a deep passoinate look)

So the next morning J leaves and says bye blah blah(my dumb ass does't get her number) and D gets alittle more comfy on me. Then we all leave and go home a few hours later my buddy that was there at the party calls me and says J wants me to give you her number so I get her number. I gave her a call yesterday and set up a date for tommorow. Well because the weather is going to be shitty here tommorow we can't do what I had planned so I call her and she throws out 2 ideas 1. is go to a muesum(ok thats not bad we can hang and talk good first date) 2. go to adventure landing and play video game(wtf did she just say play video games that is cool as shit) So needless to say were going to play video games tommorow.

Now to sum it all up D is totally hot and pretty cool but seems to be more the hey lets fuck type. J is hot but a more classy kinda girl and is more the relationship type(from what I can tell). So WTF do I do? Do I just kinda go with both and see which one I like better and not make anything exclusive untill I decide? Or do I just pick one now, I'm totally lost never been in this situation before. Anyone got any advice

Sorry for the long as post just trying to give as much detail as possible

[86 IROC-Z]

I don't know why, but reading that gave me a really bad headache. But I'd go with option A:

Do I just kinda go with both and see which one I like better and not make anything exclusive untill I decide?

[86 IROC-Z]

Find out which ones better in the sack before you decide

[JonB]

Find out which ones better in the sack before you decide

Good idea but we all kinda have mutal freinds good friends so shit would get around quick.

[Knighthawk LS1]

I'm not one to talk because i suck at relationships, but D seams like the wham-bam-thank you ma'am.
J, sounds like one you could get along with and have a long meaning full relationship.
If all you have to D is attraction ex-nay her go for J.

[Zapper2003]

My first clue would be J. She's tracking YOU down. Investigate, find out what you want, but from teh way you make it sound.. D=short term J=Longterm.

[barnac0]

I think you can answer this question on your own. What are YOU looking for. A buddy in the bed or a nice girl with a relationship. Just going by what you said in your story sounds like girl d sleeps around.

[JonB]

Yeah you guys pretty much summed it up pretty well. D=shortterm J=longterm. I am usually the long term guy but at the same time I just got out of a 4 year realationship like 6 months ago.

[astyles]

get em both in the sack at the same time then move to the next two!.....j/k

[derrinx]

how about you hit up D for a weekend or two, keep J on a leash and then move onto her once youve gotten your tension out

[00redws6]

i think i would also suggest going with option J. That sounds like the better option if you want a relationship.

[SSwt00SS]

Go for J...

your red flag should have raised on D when she was locked in a room with another dude in your presence...

Nothing more needs to be said...

[TMF]

Damn Dude, I don't have time to read all that. Here it is; Bone em like ya own em

[JonB]

I'll post an update when I get back from my date with J this afternoon, hopefully things will be more clear after.

[tnthub]

1 is odd, two is even, three is odd, four is even... There are 365 of them in a year... Go have fun.

[FasstChevys]

Date J a few more times........see how it goes.........and just stay friends with D........so if you decide you and J don't work out........you and D are still friends........and you'll get to nail her.

[86 IROC-Z]

1 is odd, two is even, three is odd, four is even... There are 365 of them in a year... Go have fun.

best advice ever

[MustangSally01]

I say go with J. If it doesn't work out then you still have slutty D to fall back on! LOL

[FasstChevys]

I say go with J. If it doesn't work out then you still have slutty D to fall back on! LOL

Bingo

[Modulistic]

(it was kinda hot like a deep passoinate look)

hahahahaahahaha thats funny for some reason