Confusing Ex Girlfriend

**Toadman** · 04-14-2006, 08:16 AM

I dated this girl for the past 13.5 months She broke up with me on mon. I'm heart broken and shocked. We got cell phones together last july. Helped her get a car that she was supposed to pay back in Aug. This year we had a few fights and got back together within a day. Since the last fight she wanted to go to the bahamas and get engaged and that was like 2 weeks ago. Shes out of a job for the past month and I lent her money and bought her stuff. Then out of no where she breaks up and tells me she had no feelings for me for a while. I'm confused.

**BIG D's SS** · 04-14-2006, 08:18 AM

She is a woman man we are not suppose to understand.

what to tell you. Keep your head up and move on. Make sure the car payments get paid and she doesn't try to stick you with anything. Cover yourself.

**Toadman** · 04-14-2006, 08:23 AM

I knoow. Her dad suppossed to pay for the car or pay the difference if I decide to keep it. I dunno what to do on that though.

**BIG D's SS** · 04-14-2006, 08:25 AM

Originally Posted by Toadman

I knoow. Her dad suppossed to pay for the car or pay the difference if I decide to keep it. I dunno what to do on that though.

So long as it gets paid and you don't get screwed over on it.

**Toadman** · 04-14-2006, 08:26 AM

I just dont know why she wouldd do this to me though.

**MarkuzLS1** · 04-14-2006, 09:01 AM

My guess? She's found some new guy she's interested in.

**Toadman** · 04-14-2006, 09:01 AM

She text me and wanted to borrow the car but doesn't want to see me. I'm not giving in either because shes using me now.

**Toadman** · 04-14-2006, 09:02 AM

She said shes living her life without a boyfriend.

**foshizl** · 04-14-2006, 09:02 AM

cuz bitches be crazy.... LOL i went through the same thing with my last X one moment she was like i love you and want to marry you, and like a week later she says she doesnt love me like that anymore...

**Toadman** · 04-14-2006, 09:06 AM

Yeah. It sucks. She is crazy. We're fighting now.

I know she will never find a guy like that treated her so good. I waited on her like she was a pricess.

**BIG D's SS** · 04-14-2006, 09:12 AM

Mark it up as a lesson learned and move on. There is plenty of fish in the sea.

**Bigrus** · 04-14-2006, 09:15 AM

Originally Posted by Toadman

She text me and wanted to borrow the car but doesn't want to see me. I'm not giving in either because shes using me now.

Keep the car, do not give her any money anymore, and tell her to not contact you anymore since your going to "Live your life without a bitch" That should put some steam under her ass.

**Toadman** · 04-14-2006, 09:21 AM

I know. I truly love her but I'm not giving anything. She needs to be giving me money.

**BillyT** · 04-14-2006, 09:55 AM

Originally Posted by Bigrus

Keep the car, do not give her any money anymore, and tell her to not contact you anymore since your going to "Live your life without a bitch" That should put some steam under her ass.

**Vette4LIFE** · 04-14-2006, 10:05 AM

Dude, now is your chance to get the upper hand, get a contract about he car drawn up and signed and notarized (if you dont' you won't get shit), then make sure you treat her indifferently (when a man treats a woman too good he makes himself a mark and women will do what you let them, basically if a woman is undisciplined in the relationship she will let her emotions run all over you).

Now is the time to get back your shit, don't let her say when you two will get together or talk (be like, I don't want you anymore sorry

), and IF she really does care she will be sorry, when she lays in the bed at night and wants to call you but can't bc YOU won't talk to her, then she'll be sorry, when she is upset and needs you but you won't be there for her, she will be sorry.

Now go and handle this shit, chin up like a man and don't let her see your pain (if she does she'll have you right where she wants you, at her beck and call).

THOMAS81Z · 04-14-2006, 10:12 AM

your money thats all she wanted, u will not see a dime its an age old story

**ls1blackbeauty98** · 04-14-2006, 10:27 AM

sorry but that gives women a bad name

**odinsonthor** · 04-14-2006, 10:55 AM

I Agree with Big D. Mark it up as a lesson learned and move on. Don't ever give in for her to use the car.
As she treats you like a stranger. Show her in return that she also is a stranger.

Good luck hunting for new ones.

**Spaz** · 04-14-2006, 11:04 AM

let's all say this together... "Gold digger" tell the bish to run in to a knife a few times...

**Vette4LIFE** · 04-14-2006, 11:39 AM

Originally Posted by odinsonthor

I Agree with Big D. Mark it up as a lesson learned and move on. Don't ever give in for her to use the car.
As she treats you like a stranger. Show her in return that she also is a stranger.

Good luck hunting for new ones.

Fuck no, don't let her use the car!!!!! Tell her when she comes to talk to you that you have a confession to make and you have been seeing someone on the side (make it believable buddy!!!!), make sure she's OWN3D!!!!!! And that her breaking up with you mean t you didn't have to hurt her. Be really sweet and make sure you thank her,lololol.