Is it bad?

**toi tyme** · 09-23-2009, 09:37 PM

That the 23rd was me and my bfs like 3 month I guess?

Aren't girls supposed to remember crap like that?

When he texts me to say happy anny

and I'm like "oh shit no clue" lol

And why am I nice to everybody except my bf? I'm not a biotch to him just stand-offish & pissy like.

I'm not usually like that. But I guess it's the whole distance thing.

Do people usually try to find reasons not to like someone when you should and they're far away?

Lol

**wheeliE-maxx** · 09-23-2009, 09:39 PM

So you've been "dating" for three months and what, two of them he's been gone? Riiii-t

**silverWS6** · 09-23-2009, 09:39 PM

Originally Posted by toityme

That the 23rd was me and my bfs like 3 month I guess?

Aren't girls supposed to remember crap like that?

And why am I nice to everybody except my bf? I'm not a biotch to him just stand-offish & pissy like.

I'm not usually like that. But I guess it's the whole distance thing.

Do people usually try to find reasons not to like someone when you should and they're far away?

Lol

Wow, I thought you guys had more than 3 months.

**toi tyme** · 09-23-2009, 09:41 PM

Well we didn't even have an official date. We dated all summer but I went out with other people.

So we made up a date roughly around the time I decided i just wanted to see him. July 23. Lol

**86 IROC-Z** · 09-23-2009, 09:42 PM

Break up with him. It's not working out.

**toi tyme** · 09-23-2009, 09:42 PM

Originally Posted by wheeliE-maxx

So you've been "dating" for three months and what, two of them he's been gone? Riiii-t

Yeah left med august. But we skyped everyday.

Wasn't much different when he left last year. Cuz we were like best friends. Just not dating. Well he was into me and I wasn't at the time.

**silverWS6** · 09-23-2009, 09:43 PM

craaaazy if its just been "official" 3 months idk if its worth the whole long distance deal

**86 IROC-Z** · 09-23-2009, 09:43 PM

Originally Posted by toityme

Yeah left med august. But we skyped everyday.

Wasn't much different when he left last year. Cuz we were like best friends. Just not dating. Well he was into me and I wasn't at the time.

You probably feel the way you do because the guy was already in the friendzone but then you started dating him. It won't work out.

**toi tyme** · 09-23-2009, 09:44 PM

It is working. Like I want him.

But I also don't like being alone while he's gone.

I'm a people person. I feel like I don't see anyone.

But that could be cuz I seriously haven't for 2 weeks.

I finally get to leave this lonely house tomorrow and go back to my people infested home.

**86 IROC-Z** · 09-23-2009, 09:47 PM

Originally Posted by toityme

It is working. Like I want him.

But I also don't like being alone while he's gone.

I'm a people person. I feel like I don't see anyone.

But that could be cuz I seriously haven't for 2 weeks.

I finally get to leave this lonely house tomorrow and go back to my people infested home.

Life isn't perfect. Decide what's more important.

**c5z28** · 09-23-2009, 09:47 PM

It sounds like you had a casual summer romance and that's about it.

**wheeliE-maxx** · 09-23-2009, 09:48 PM

What you've been letting slip on the e-nets would suggest otherwise as far as wanting him sometimes. And skyping doesn't count. Mehbeh move on imo

**toi tyme** · 09-23-2009, 09:49 PM

Originally Posted by silverWS.6

craaaazy if its just been "official" 3 months idk if its worth the whole long distance deal

Aug to mid October is the longest we are apart. He comes home thanksgiving week and Xmas break which aren't far apart.

I don't want to dump him. Before I missed him a lot. But right now I honestly don't think I miss him as much as I should.

But I'm not a clingy person like typical girls. So maybe that's normal for me?

**86 IROC-Z** · 09-23-2009, 09:49 PM

Originally Posted by wheeliE-maxx

What you've been letting slip on the e-nets would suggest otherwise as far as wanting him sometimes. And skyping doesn't count. Mehbeh move on imo

Lol this. Strong attention whoring due to being lonely.

**Packy** · 09-23-2009, 09:50 PM

Well I am one of those people that think you should only celebrate the years and maybe 6 month points. So yeah I think it maybe a little wierd. I also have a little Skype thing going on with someone back in the states. We have been in a long distance thing for about 5 months and I can say that we both don't even know whats going on. When we see each other we just enjoy the time spent with each other.

**Hi-Po** · 09-23-2009, 09:51 PM

Hes obviously gay

**86 IROC-Z** · 09-23-2009, 09:52 PM

Originally Posted by Packy

Well I am one of those people that think you should only celebrate the years and maybe 6 month points.

Yeah. I sent a text for each single month & that was it. Only a big deal was made about it on the year.

**toi tyme** · 09-23-2009, 09:52 PM

I'm not complaining. No shit is perfect.

Just trying to see if my behavior was normal.

He tells me he loves me all the time. Wants kids, marriage. He's buying me a promise ring for Xmas.

I've said I loved him. But not as much as he loves me. I'm not in love with him yet. He didn't kno the difference.

If the situation was reverce. What would yall do?

A girl is totally in to you. Yall love each other. Than she goes away to school for 2 months. Then after that you can see her every 3 weeks.