Another sex queston

**98-LS1** · 07-21-2006, 04:47 AM

Since we have a great sex tech trend going on I thought I'd ask this:

How many times does your girl put out in a week? Do they complain about having it too much? female members chime in too, I'd like to hear your opinion's. My wife has been bitching about it for the past year, as you know we were having problems but things are back to normal now and I still can't get none. WTF! She says I hurt her when we do it, come on! It can't be that bad! I'm lucky to get it once every two weeks when we used to do it twice a day. I don't expect that much but at least twice a week would be nice. Do ya'lls girls like getting it on? Mine never does

**Zboner** · 07-21-2006, 04:49 AM

sex comes secondary to women, if the relationship is going very good then you will more sex with her. thats what i have found to be true about women and relationships

**egaian** · 07-21-2006, 05:40 AM

I need/want it at least once a day (i'd prefer it like 10) but with work scheduales, etc we have sex every day of the week, I think there have only been a few times we haven't. Sex is important in a relationship I think, I have found that the deeper, more serious and happy our relationship is the better the sex has gotten...
but also, if i dont' get it on a normal basis I get kooky lol

**rbob93** · 07-21-2006, 06:14 AM

Originally Posted by 98-LS1

My wife has been bitching about it for the past year, as you know we were having problems but things are back to normal
She says I hurt her when we do it, come on! It can't be that bad!

Well you may THINK that being back to "normal" would be OK, but isn't your "normal" relationship what was a problem?
You aren't doing something right, or she doesn't feel right about you.

Try pulling your balls up over your head and tell me that it feels good!
C'mon, it can't be that bad!
She may have a physical problem that is making it painful, so an examination and frank talk with her GYN is in order, or her pain stems from the thought of having sex with you.

**98-LS1** · 07-21-2006, 07:06 AM

I think it's more of an excuse. What more can I do though? I take her out to a movie and dinner at least once a week when I have time, I help her around the house, etc.. I'm lost! She says nothing is wrong but then she acts like that. I think she just wants it when she's feeling horny which is almost never. Most of my buddies get it daily, hell their wives jump on them all the time! I don't know, it might be me.

**toneloc60** · 07-21-2006, 07:25 AM

Don't feel bad dude. There's absolutely nothing bad in my relationship with my wife. However, we only get busy on average once to twice a week. Honestly I've gotten to where I just don't much care. It's amazing how much better I feel in the morning after a full night's sleep than a night of sex. By the way. I didn't think my sex life would come to this at only 24. Like I said though, it really doesn't bother me.

**SSwt00SS** · 07-21-2006, 07:30 AM

my psycho EX and I nailed each other about 2 times a day for well close to 7 months until she went ape shit telling me she's pregnant, which she isn't. I caught her in so many lies, I ended it. She still won't leave me alone and wants to know why we can't have a 'sexual relationship'. I want nothing to do with her anymore after her lies and deception.

**Ice Spiral** · 07-21-2006, 07:52 AM

Originally Posted by SSwt00SS

my psycho EX and I nailed each other about 2 times a day for well close to 7 months until she went ape shit telling me she's pregnant, which she isn't. I caught her in so many lies, I ended it. She still won't leave me alone and wants to know why we can't have a 'sexual relationship'. I want nothing to do with her anymore after her lies and deception.

stay the fuck away from that crazy stalker...

**98-LS1** · 07-21-2006, 08:50 AM

Originally Posted by SSwt00SS

my psycho EX and I nailed each other about 2 times a day for well close to 7 months until she went ape shit telling me she's pregnant, which she isn't. I caught her in so many lies, I ended it. She still won't leave me alone and wants to know why we can't have a 'sexual relationship'. I want nothing to do with her anymore after her lies and deception.

Damn man, I don't blame you one bit! Women can get a little crazy

**ss~zoso~ss** · 07-21-2006, 08:55 AM

ooooooo witchy woman.......

**rbob93** · 07-21-2006, 09:50 AM

Originally Posted by 98-LS1

I think it's more of an excuse. What more can I do though? I take her out to a movie and dinner at least once a week when I have time, I help her around the house, etc.. I'm lost! She says nothing is wrong but then she acts like that. I think she just wants it when she's feeling horny which is almost never. Most of my buddies get it daily, hell their wives jump on them all the time! I don't know, it might be me.

I'm not sure what the answer for you is.....but my dad put it to me like this when I asked him what pussy is.........."Pussy is the thing that a woman uses to get a man to marry her, and the last thing she will give a man once he does."

The wisdom in this is the fact that sex is not important to all women.
And remember, women want LOVE, not sex. If they feel LOVED, there is a better chance for sex, but this is no gaurantee.

Something is not right, she either doesn't quite know what it is herself, or she really doesn't want you anymore.
Once a woman sees you from a different perspective than she had of you when you two met, it's over.

Good luck, but get used to yourself or find a friend on the side.

**FuxOnTheFirstDate** · 07-21-2006, 09:58 AM

Originally Posted by 98-LS1

I think it's more of an excuse. What more can I do though? I take her out to a movie and dinner at least once a week when I have time, I help her around the house, etc.. I'm lost! She says nothing is wrong but then she acts like that. I think she just wants it when she's feeling horny which is almost never. Most of my buddies get it daily, hell their wives jump on them all the time! I don't know, it might be me.

www.realdoll.com That or if you're NOT Bill Gates or Donald Trump, get a life-like masturbator for like $20-$30. That and some porn should get you at least SOME satisfaction. Sex with a loving woman is better than a pocket pussy. Sex with a woman that isn't into it isn't. Especially if she's so NOT into it that she won't put out. You have to adapt to your environment, buddy.

**98-LS1** · 07-21-2006, 10:35 AM

I'm not sure what the answer for you is.....but my dad put it to me like this when I asked him what pussy is.........."Pussy is the thing that a woman uses to get a man to marry her, and the last thing she will give a man once he does."

That's a great point, she's funny though. Sometimes she'll get in a groove and absolutely fuck my brains out for a month straight but then other times she'll be fine without it forever. I can't figure her out, guess it ain't meant to figure women out though. Could find me an older, good lookin woman on the side that's just needing a good fuck without a commitment.. I know where there are plenty of them at..

**SeVeReDiStOrTiOn** · 07-21-2006, 10:35 AM

Originally Posted by FuxOnTheFirstDate

www.realdoll.com That or if you're NOT Bill Gates or Donald Trump, get a life-like masturbator for like $20-$30. That and some porn should get you at least SOME satisfaction. Sex with a loving woman is better than a pocket pussy. Sex with a woman that isn't into it isn't. Especially if she's so NOT into it that she won't put out. You have to adapt to your environment, buddy.

damn those things look real...

**Mr. Luos** · 07-21-2006, 10:38 AM

She is pregnant right now...
So once a year.

Normally 2-4 times a week.

**meanlx** · 07-21-2006, 10:53 AM

Usually the longer you are married the less you get. After our 15 years together we're down to about once a week........so if my math is correct we should stop having sex all together by the time we're 60.....which is fine with me, cause I don't wanna be bangin no 60 year old.

**Yong** · 07-21-2006, 11:13 AM

Originally Posted by SSwt00SS

my psycho EX and I nailed each other about 2 times a day for well close to 7 months until she went ape shit telling me she's pregnant, which she isn't. I caught her in so many lies, I ended it. She still won't leave me alone and wants to know why we can't have a 'sexual relationship'. I want nothing to do with her anymore after her lies and deception.

If I didnt know better, id swear I went back in time 2 years and wrote that post! lol

**310stanger** · 07-21-2006, 11:22 AM

i hate to bring this up but she might be doing some other dude. thats one of a few reasons women stop putting off for you. my interpretation of marriage is once your married sex stops because they have already gotten u reeled in.

**ss~zoso~ss** · 07-21-2006, 11:54 AM

Originally Posted by meanlx

Usually the longer you are married the less you get. After our 15 years together we're down to about once a week........so if my math is correct we should stop having sex all together by the time we're 60.....which is fine with me, cause I don't wanna be bangin no 60 year old.

just trade her in for 3 20 year olds