About your woman...

**djvaly** · 01-08-2007, 11:22 AM

What are some of the things your woman does that annoy (upset) you and how do you deal or both deal with them? like her small lies, wondering eyes, jelousy, holding to the silly arguments and reminding you much later while she goes through depression and makes you pay for them over and over again until u drain of energy, that kindda little drama.. etc... anything you have on your mind about this subject, pour in here. just curious to see how people deal with their relationship situations whatever they are...

**ZAPFOOL!!** · 01-08-2007, 11:24 AM

Originally Posted by djvaly

What are some of the things your woman does that annoy (upset) you and how do you deal or both deal with them? like her small lies, wondering eyes, jelousy, holding to the silly arguments and reminding you much later while she goes through depression and makes you pay for them over and over again until u drain of energy, that kindda little drama.. etc... anything you have on your mind about this subject, pour in here. just curious to see how people deal with their relationship situations whatever they are...

having issues are we?

**djvaly** · 01-08-2007, 11:44 AM

Originally Posted by ZAPFOOL!!

having issues are we?

says who? no, just curious to see what people usually go through...
it's like learning the minds of other women, it's be nice to see what they think out there... hehhehe... so like I said for those that wish to share their women's weaknesses or whatever, pour in here, whatever they are

btw. Zappy.. hehhe u wish we had difficulties.. hehehhe.. u dog

**djvaly** · 01-08-2007, 11:51 AM

alright, I can start first. my woman's weakness is allowing me to pretty much do what I want, like hang out with guys and friends every week, tt bars and stuff... sometimes I feel guilty that I can do that much, but I guess most guys think of it as a strength rather than weakness. maybe I am just blessed with a really nice and mature but young wife. so every now and then I buy her a gift and tell her I appreciate the freedom with my friends... I still feel I am getting away with a lot sometimes but it just me I think... that's about it.. other than that just the usual I said you said arguments which everybody has once in a while. ok, now u guys.... ?

**SexOnWheels** · 01-08-2007, 11:54 AM

Originally Posted by djvaly

.... holding to the silly arguments and reminding you much later while she goes through depression and makes you pay for them over and over again until u drain of energy...

Holding a grudge for far too long, I mean no one is perfect but women need to let go of things.

Maybe a week of bringing it up and then it dies.

Man law?

**djvaly** · 01-08-2007, 11:57 AM

hehehhe, nice, man law

**ShelbySS** · 01-08-2007, 12:02 PM

Originally Posted by djvaly

alright, I can start first. my woman's weakness is allowing me to pretty much do what I want, like hang out with guys and friends every week, tt bars and stuff... sometimes I feel guilty that I can do that much, but I guess most guys think of it as a strength rather than weakness. maybe I am just blessed with a really nice and mature but young wife. so every now and then I buy her a gift and tell her I appreciate the freedom with my friends... I still feel I am getting away with a lot sometimes but it just me I think... that's about it.. other than that just the usual I said you said arguments which everybody has once in a while. ok, now u guys.... ?

I...ahem..being a women would not want my man to be going to tt clubs and what not. From my view, if he is TRULY satisfied at the home front, then he should not have the desire to want to go hang out in those type of places. To me if you choose to put yourself in those situations, you're just asking for trouble. Also, should you be guilty? Yes. You should not take advantage of the fact that you have (as you stated) a good women. Instead, you should want to be with her and do things that include her.

If a women gives you (speaking generally) a hard time about looking at porn, going to tt clubs or whatever, then it doesnt mean she is jealous person. I know that becuase I am a very confident person and self assured, independent etc. etc. However I have found myself in relationships that because I didnt have confidence in our "relationship" (not myself) but the relationship then I would find myself wanting the guy to stay away from those types of things...i.e porn etc. However IF a two people are truly, 100% confident with thier relationship, then I see no problem with a guy going out to a tt club or whatever (and the women to chip and dales) but I do feel is should be kept to a mininum. Like 4 times a year...

I hope i didnt ramble too much.........any thoughts on this???

**nitrox28** · 01-08-2007, 12:03 PM

She uses a SHIIIITLOAD of toilet paper. I don't care what she does in her bathroom, but she'll use all of mine and not replace it. There are just so many things. I honestly hate the bitch sometimes.

**Spaz** · 01-08-2007, 12:05 PM

Originally Posted by nitrox28

She uses a SHIIIITLOAD of toilet paper. I don't care what she does in her bathroom, but she'll use all of mine and not replace it. There are just so many things. I honestly hate the bitch sometimes.

replace it with this then...

**djvaly** · 01-08-2007, 12:06 PM

Originally Posted by ShelbySS

I...ahem..being a women would not want my man to be going to tt clubs and what not. From my view, if he is TRULY satisfied at the home front, then he should not have the desire to want to go hang out in those type of places. To me if you choose to put yourself in those situations, you're just asking for trouble. Also, should you be guilty? Yes. You should not take advantage of the fact that you have (as you stated) a good women. Instead, you should want to be with her and do things that include her.

If a women gives you (speaking generally) a hard time about looking at porn, going to tt clubs or whatever, then it doesnt mean she is jealous person. I know that becuase I am a very confident person and self assured, independent etc. etc. However I have found myself in relationships that because I didnt have confidence in our "relationship" (not myself) but the relationship then I would find myself wanting the guy to stay away from those types of things...i.e porn etc. However IF a two people are truly, 100% confident with thier relationship, then I see no problem with a guy going out to a tt club or whatever (and the women to chip and dales) but I do feel is should be kept to a mininum. Like 4 times a year...

I hope i didnt ramble too much.........any thoughts on this???

I agree with you!

I do tt bars once in a blue moon, probably will stop after kid(s).. I guess another year or so.. hmm. if that makes sence...

**ShelbySS** · 01-08-2007, 12:07 PM

Originally Posted by SexOnWheels

Holding a grudge for far too long, I mean no one is perfect but women need to let go of things.

Maybe a week of bringing it up and then it dies.

Man law?

holding a grude? Not healthy at all for the relationship. Anyone who is truly mature, would know that holding grudges vs. forgiving and moving forward, will only hurt the relationship. A relationship is doomed...(eventually) if people harbor negative feelings....

If a person can not handle letting go (of a problem that the mate did) then the person needs to walk away from the relationship. Otherwise, that person will make the other person miserable and then becuase they are miserable they will intern, treat the other person badly and then it will become a vicious cycle that will eventually end........So lesson learned? A person has to agree to forgive and NEVER look back (harbor feelings) or walk away.....

Me? the only thing I would walk away from in a relationship would be cheating. Anything else I would forgive and MOVE FORWARD. If the same thing happened again...then I would consider walking away cuz by that time, my trust would be completly gone.

**ShelbySS** · 01-08-2007, 12:08 PM

Originally Posted by nitrox28

She uses a SHIIIITLOAD of toilet paper. I don't care what she does in her bathroom, but she'll use all of mine and not replace it. There are just so many things. I honestly hate the bitch sometimes.

let the little things go. No one is perfect. I'm sure you do things that drive her crazy....pick your battles.

**djvaly** · 01-08-2007, 12:10 PM

heheh Dr Phil is in da Houz!

**ShelbySS** · 01-08-2007, 12:10 PM

Originally Posted by djvaly

heheh Dr Phil is in da Houz!

Yeah, yeah laugh it up bioootttchh!

**djvaly** · 01-08-2007, 12:11 PM

hehehhe I lika the thinking, u a woman, knows this subject well!

**SexOnWheels** · 01-08-2007, 12:14 PM

Originally Posted by ShelbySS

holding a grude? Not healthy at all for the relationship. Anyone who is truly mature, would know that holding grudges vs. forgiving and moving forward, will only hurt the relationship. A relationship is doomed...(eventually) if people harbor negative feelings....

If a person can not handle letting go (of a problem that the mate did) then the person needs to walk away from the relationship. Otherwise, that person will make the other person miserable and then becuase they are miserable they will intern, treat the other person badly and then it will become a vicious cycle that will eventually end........So lesson learned? A person has to agree to forgive and NEVER look back (harbor feelings) or walk away.....

Me? the only thing I would walk away from in a relationship would be cheating. Anything else I would forgive and MOVE FORWARD. If the same thing happened again...then I would consider walking away cuz by that time, my trust would be completly gone.

Agreed but, to me, women seem to hold grudges for periods of time. Men just fist fight and then it is over.

Originally Posted by djvaly

heheh Dr Phil is in da Houz!

Bite your tongue, it is really nice to have a lady give her perspective do not scare her away we could all benefit from Shelby giving up the secrets!

**djvaly** · 01-08-2007, 12:15 PM

Originally Posted by SexOnWheels

Agreed but, to me, women seem to hold grudges for periods of time. Men just fist fight and then it is over.

Bite your tongue, it is really nice to have a lady give her perspective do not scare her away we could all benefit from Shelby giving up the secrets!

**transamprincess98** · 01-08-2007, 12:17 PM

I am the woman, BUT my BF does little shit that gets to me.
He isn't into cars, I am. I babble about new mods, ideas, etc He just stares into space and doesn't bother to pay any attention. I support him in his hobbies I just ask for equal support.
He often "forgets" what I say. I asked for "medium" lifting gloves he got me "large"
It's always stupid little crap

**Spaz** · 01-08-2007, 12:18 PM

Originally Posted by djvaly

heheh Dr Phil is in da Houz!

**djvaly** · 01-08-2007, 12:24 PM

Originally Posted by transamprincess98

I am the woman, BUT my BF does little shit that gets to me.
He isn't into cars, I am. I babble about new mods, ideas, etc He just stares into space and doesn't bother to pay any attention. I support him in his hobbies I just ask for equal support.
He often "forgets" what I say. I asked for "medium" lifting gloves he got me "large"
It's always stupid little crap

hahahaha, he got u the small size for XMas when u asked for super size eh?