Okay I took another shot at it. but this time I removed the air dam, the acces panels and all that rubbish out the way, and I found two striped wires, that were probably causing my short. So I cleaned and cut them, insterted heat shirnk, and connected them usng a butt connector, then I shrunk that sob down to size, and so far it solved my fuse problem, but I still cant get them to run together, either one turns on or the other. looks like that part is getting its own wiring.

for the time being I will install the Headlights and see how that goes. Ill keep you posted!