I Love you. Those horrible words. Help

**Hi-Po** · 09-10-2008, 03:43 PM

ALright, I have been with this girl for about 2 months now. She has stayed at my house every single damn night for at least 7 weeks. Every night. She is getting really attached to me. I really like her, but its still early ya know? Now the big problem.

Last night we went to the Journey concert and took a party bus out there with 14 other people. Mostly couples. I got really drunk. Too drunk. Anyway, we leave the concert about an hour early for some reason. All I can think is I wanna have sex with her... somewhere. So I am bugging her constantly to have sex in the parking lot. She is not giving in.

Let me emphasize on me being absolutely wasted. Somehow, she said that words to me, and my dumb horny ass said it back to her.

Thinking that if I say it to her I will get some ass before we get home. That was really dumb. So needless to say she just loved that I said that. Its eating me alive, I dont love her. I just really like her.

Earlier today she message's me asking me If I remember what she and I said last night. Blah. I said ya and we will talk about it later.

How do I tell her that I didnt mean to tell her I loved her and her not totally freak and get pissed? I dont want every conversation ending with, "I Love you"

How can I say this to her? I am stupid. Any Ideas?

**bmyers** · 09-10-2008, 03:48 PM

whoa hold up....you know the drill

pics...than answers

**Hi-Po** · 09-10-2008, 03:50 PM

Jesus. If she finds these somehow she will fucking kill me.

**bmyers** · 09-10-2008, 03:52 PM

im a boob guy.....

**bmyers** · 09-10-2008, 03:52 PM

seriously though, i dont know be honest and hope for the best.

**67CamaroRSSS** · 09-10-2008, 03:54 PM

Originally Posted by Hi-Po

Jesus. If she finds these somehow she will fucking kill me.

With that statement I figure you're whooped already. Give in and enjoy.

**LSx Heaven** · 09-10-2008, 03:55 PM

Originally Posted by Hi-Po

Jesus. If she finds these somehow she will fucking kill me.

Well I am sure you love that. Lol. You just opened a huge can of worms. Good luck Bro.

**Zrated** · 09-10-2008, 03:55 PM

Agreed. Honesty is the best policy. If she thinks about it, knowing you were wasted at the time....she should be able to connect the dots.

**Hi-Po** · 09-10-2008, 03:57 PM

Originally Posted by 67CamaroRSSS

With that statement I figure you're whooped already. Give in and enjoy.

I kinda am. Theres no way around it.

**grouch0jr** · 09-10-2008, 03:57 PM

damn dude, im at a loss for advice. tell her that you remember what you said, but you still think its a little to early in the relationship to be saying things like that, because you two dont know each other well enough yet. i dunno. thatll probably get you in trouble, haha.

**bmyers** · 09-10-2008, 03:57 PM

since we got that out of the way....back to the pics..

**Kennedy** · 09-10-2008, 03:57 PM

Originally Posted by bmyers

whoa hold up....you know the drill

pics...than answers

Lime Cat, you are the Man.

**Hi-Po** · 09-10-2008, 03:58 PM

Originally Posted by LSx Heaven

Well I am sure you love that. Lol. You just opened a huge can of worms. Good luck Bro.

I want to close this damn can, now.

Yes, I really enjoy that. Good times.

**Hi-Po** · 09-10-2008, 03:58 PM

**grouch0jr** · 09-10-2008, 03:58 PM

haha, yeah, s hes got a dinomite ass, lets see the rest of her.

**Hi-Po** · 09-10-2008, 03:59 PM

Originally Posted by grouch0jr

damn dude, im at a loss for advice. tell her that you remember what you said, but you still think its a little to early in the relationship to be saying things like that, because you two dont know each other well enough yet. i dunno. thatll probably get you in trouble, haha.

Exactly.

There is no way that I can see, that I can get out of this.

**Hi-Po** · 09-10-2008, 04:00 PM

Originally Posted by grouch0jr

haha, yeah, s hes got a dinomite ass, lets see the rest of her.

Ill be taking more pictures of her tonight probably. I told her to bring all kinds and colors of panties to show off.

**bmyers** · 09-10-2008, 04:00 PM

Originally Posted by Kennedy

Lime Cat, you are the Man.

**grouch0jr** · 09-10-2008, 04:03 PM

Originally Posted by Hi-Po

Exactly.

There is no way that I can see, that I can get out of this.

i know that this is such cliche advice, but just be honest. anything, and i mean ANYTHING, else will come back and bite you in the ass. dont say "i dont love you", but just say youre not ready to say those kinds of things. at least pretend it didnt happen until she brings it up.

or, if you want to get smacked, tell her you mean "i love your pussy" haha. ive said that to chicks before.

**dpinson** · 09-10-2008, 04:09 PM

tell her you do think that you are falling in love with her but you need to slow things down because you dont want to rush into another serious relationship only to be hurt again lol

it sounds like it might work
playing the guy thsat was seriously heartbroken by a former girl has gotten me a few notches on the belt,but then again so has walking up to a girl and saying hey you wanna fuck