I hate her!

**lira'sls1's** · 03-31-2007, 08:55 PM

Well, after a lot of beers I start thinking of her and hate her even more(coz she was right, I guess) I can't stop thinking about her, does that make me a loser?
I guess it does, Im here still in love and she is already gone, she still calls me and makes me feel like shit,saying stuff like " I still care about you", " I wanna make sure U r Ok " I ask my self , what kind of game is she playing ? what do I need to do? Sorry, Im just drunk and thinking shit.

What would you Do?

**AKIRA** · 03-31-2007, 08:57 PM

What would I do? Id shut the fuck up. When youre drunk, you think up stupid ass logic. Go to bed. Deal with it in the morning.

You gotta be 17-24 years old.

**derrinx** · 03-31-2007, 08:58 PM

how old are you....if you're my age shut the hell up and find some more ass, you're too young to be in love...

but seriously, relationships suck. get some rest, and try and figure shit out when you are sober...i guess if i really liked her i'd try and get her back, but im not the type to like a girl for longer than a period of 72 hours...good luck buddy

**derrinx** · 03-31-2007, 08:59 PM

Originally Posted by AKIRA

What would I do? Id shut the fuck up. When youre drunk, you think up stupid ass logic. Go to bed. Deal with it in the morning.

You gotta be 17-24 years old.

**SSwt00SS** · 03-31-2007, 09:06 PM

dont answer her calls. forget her and move on. she probably is getting off on the fact that youre miserable. delete her fucking number. she doesnt exist. you following us here...

**lira'sls1's** · 03-31-2007, 09:12 PM

you following us here...[/QUOTE]

Yeah, I am, she is my exwife, of 9 years, I wish I was 20 or 24 thinks were easy then, now they r not, Im not being a cry baby, sometimes is just hard to grab a hold of whats going on, never been in this situation before, sorry guys, Im going to bed.

**lira'sls1's** · 03-31-2007, 09:15 PM

Originally Posted by AKIRA

What would I do? Id shut the fuck up. When youre drunk, you think up stupid ass logic. Go to bed. Deal with it in the morning.

You gotta be 17-24 years old.

I wish it was that easy, I really do.

**0rion** · 03-31-2007, 09:24 PM

Been there and done that. I tell you what. Drinking and divorce don't mix. It cost me a pickup truck. Got drunk and rolled it. Fun times.
The best thing you can do is just let the stages progress. You'll miss her, then you'll be mad at her, then you'll wish bad shit on her, and finally you'll get to the point to where you don't care. The first step is to miss her which sounds like where you're at now. I would recommend not taking her calls anymore and unless you have kids just cut off cold turkey. It lets everything move along instead of keeping you hung up on the first step. Good luck my brother and it's a long hard road that's best taken sober.

**JonB** · 04-01-2007, 08:27 AM

Yep cutting her off cold turkey is the best way. If you have kid you can't do that but only talk to her when it concerns the kids and for nothing else, if conversation starts moving away from the kids make up a reason why you have to go. I've never been married but did have my GF leave me after almost 5 years about 6 months ago. I've talked to her once since then and I made the mistake of calling her, I only made that mistake once. I makes it way easier when there is no contact, you might not think that now but trust me its better. We lived toghter for like 2 weeks once we broke up and that was possibly the hardest/weirdest 2 weeks of my life. Just cut her off and take some time for yourself.

**Spaz** · 04-01-2007, 08:35 AM

Originally Posted by JonB

Yep cutting her off cold turkey is the best way. If you have kid you can't do that but only talk to her when it concerns the kids and for nothing else, if conversation starts moving away from the kids make up a reason why you have to go. I've never been married but did have my GF leave me after almost 5 years about 6 months ago. I've talked to her once since then and I made the mistake of calling her, I only made that mistake once. I makes it way easier when there is no contact, you might not think that now but trust me its better. We lived toghter for like 2 weeks once we broke up and that was possibly the hardest/weirdest 2 weeks of my life. Just cut her off and take some time for yourself.

good idea... keep her in your freezer...

**AKIRA** · 04-01-2007, 08:47 AM

Hung over?

BadBlueBird* · 04-01-2007, 08:49 AM

New pussy always fixes these problems

**1MileCrash** · 04-01-2007, 09:11 AM

i'd stop answering the phone after i told her to get bent.

**nhraformula** · 04-01-2007, 09:27 AM

Originally Posted by lira'sls1's

you following us here...

Yeah, I am, she is my exwife, of 9 years, I wish I was 20 or 24 thinks were easy then, now they r not, Im not being a cry baby, sometimes is just hard to grab a hold of whats going on, never been in this situation before, sorry guys, Im going to bed.[/QUOTE]

walk away. you can love somebody all you want, but if they dont love you back, its useless. its not easy to walk, but at times it needs to be done. better to be single then deal with a bitch

**nhraformula** · 04-01-2007, 09:28 AM

Originally Posted by BadBlueBird*

New pussy always fixes these problems

agree

**SexOnWheels** · 04-01-2007, 09:29 AM

Originally Posted by The Real Spaz

good idea... keep her in your freezer...

Used to love her.

Now she is buried in my back yard!

Move on lira, reel in a new fish from the sea!

**lira'sls1's** · 04-01-2007, 03:51 PM

My head hurts!

**eddierox** · 04-01-2007, 06:35 PM

I was browsing through Ebay's Everything Else Category one day ... I think it was the Wierd Stuff section ... where this dude was selling underwear and nude pix of his ex to get even with her ... she was a total babe so he was making some money ...

So you can always keep her in check with this litttle weapon ..

**NHRAMAN** · 04-01-2007, 06:38 PM

Originally Posted by derrinx

x 2................

**odinsonthor** · 04-01-2007, 09:11 PM

Originally Posted by 0rion

Been there and done that. I tell you what. Drinking and divorce don't mix. It cost me a pickup truck. Got drunk and rolled it. Fun times.
The best thing you can do is just let the stages progress. You'll miss her, then you'll be mad at her, then you'll wish bad shit on her, and finally you'll get to the point to where you don't care. The first step is to miss her which sounds like where you're at now. I would recommend not taking her calls anymore and unless you have kids just cut off cold turkey. It lets everything move along instead of keeping you hung up on the first step. Good luck my brother and it's a long hard road that's best taken sober.

Good advice