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    HUGE argument with the BF....

    What do you think? Today a childhood friend of his passed away that he had not talked to in 6 years. After work we went to have a drink. Even though I have a huge knot on my head and I cannot move my neck and shoulders he insisted on staying. Cab fare from the bar would be $60. I say there misserable. He says I am insensative b/c I want to come home b/c I can't move. When we got home he called an ex-girlfriend b/c they were all friends. I think this is disrespectful to me. Seriously this is rediculous!!

    I wish there was some way I could get him out of my house!!

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    wat?

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    ok, a few things here and several of you younger guys pay attention.

    Drinking after the funeral of a friend never leads to good things in my experience.

    Never take your GF/wife with you anytime you want to have a good time.

    Never take an injured GF/wife with you anywhere anytime.

    Never live in a house where a GF/wife is able to say MY house.

    Never live so far in the sticks that a cab ride costs $60.



    Since I've been married a long time I can give you the answer you want to hear. Yes, it was pretty shitty of him to keep you there against your will and then to call an ex when you got home.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 0rion View Post
    ok, a few things here and several of you younger guys pay attention.

    Drinking after the funeral of a friend never leads to good things in my experience.

    Never take your GF/wife with you anytime you want to have a good time.

    Never take an injured GF/wife with you anywhere anytime.

    Never live in a house where a GF/wife is able to say MY house.

    Never live so far in the sticks that a cab ride costs $60.



    Since I've been married a long time I can give you the answer you want to hear. Yes, it was pretty shitty of him to keep you there against your will and then to call an ex when you got home.

    Dude, you know we work in the rest. industry, so we go out almost everynight and have a great time. But, we were sitting there with two of his co-workers and he is on the phone with another friend. I am hurting and he is on the phone. Why can he not be at home on the phone. I have been trying to break-up with him for a couple of weeks and he just WON'T leave!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by TempleU_WS6 View Post
    wat?
    What do u need explained?

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    Quote Originally Posted by 0rion View Post
    ok, a few things here and several of you younger guys pay attention.

    Drinking after the funeral of a friend never leads to good things in my experience.

    Never take your GF/wife with you anytime you want to have a good time.

    Never take an injured GF/wife with you anywhere anytime.

    Never live in a house where a GF/wife is able to say MY house.

    Never live so far in the sticks that a cab ride costs $60.



    Since I've been married a long time I can give you the answer you want to hear. Yes, it was pretty shitty of him to keep you there against your will and then to call an ex when you got home.
    We live in Myrtle Beach. It is a far drive everywhere! Red lights and shit

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    You can't just tell him?

    When I divorced the ex I gave her 3 months to find a place. When she hadn't I put all her stuff on the porch and changed the locks.

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    Eviction thats all I can say

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    Fucking dump him. I understand that he is going through a shitty spot too, but he did infact not talk to the person for 6 yrs. Had you not been in a car accident and hurting I would tell you stop whining though. But you hurting and what not, definite lack of respect on his part.

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    I don't want to sound like a big girly drama mama. Seeing as how there are mostly men on here, I am pretty sure if I told you some of the shit he has pulled you would be shocked. I have tried to be nice, but apparently that is not going to work and I have no idea how to be mean. I wish I could understand this man. Not to stay together, but just for my sanity.

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    Um if he is in your house and wont leave call the cops and have them remove him

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    Quote Originally Posted by mrwdjv View Post
    I don't want to sound like a big girly drama mama. Seeing as how there are mostly men on here, I am pretty sure if I told you some of the shit he has pulled you would be shocked. I have tried to be nice, but apparently that is not going to work and I have no idea how to be mean. I wish I could understand this man. Not to stay together, but just for my sanity.
    Point to your vajayjay and tell him "see that, thats off limits now" He'll leave after that. I would






    Just joking. I know I know, I'm an insensitive jerkoff lol Seriously, dump him and get someone new.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Red on Red WS6 View Post
    Um if he is in your house and wont leave call the cops and have them remove him
    I think this problem could easily be solved if she had some girl on girl with your wife

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    Quote Originally Posted by 310stanger View Post
    Fucking dump him. I understand that he is going through a shitty spot too, but he did infact not talk to the person for 6 yrs. Had you not been in a car accident and hurting I would tell you stop whining though. But you hurting and what not, definite lack of respect on his part.

    My sentiments exactly. I worked Mon after my wreck, Tuesday morning 9am, Tues night till 9pm, have to be back at school at 9am, and I work tomorrow night, Thurs night, and Friday night! I have Sat off and start the cycle again!

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    I don't think you were wrong, but sounds like he was having a rough time with it. However if they were such good friends, why 6 years of not talking? And calling an ex was a big no no and he totally crossed the line there. I don't understand what people are thinking at times when in a relationship... my gf, ex, whatever she is now really ticked me off the past couple of days, so I'm a little bitter right now!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Red on Red WS6 View Post
    Um if he is in your house and wont leave call the cops and have them remove him
    I called them....must evict him.....can't just force him to leave.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mrwdjv View Post
    I don't want to sound like a big girly drama mama. Seeing as how there are mostly men on here, I am pretty sure if I told you some of the shit he has pulled you would be shocked. I have tried to be nice, but apparently that is not going to work and I have no idea how to be mean. I wish I could understand this man. Not to stay together, but just for my sanity.
    I seriously doubt you could shock this crowd
    But you can sometimes get good advice from here.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 310stanger View Post
    I think this problem could easily be solved if she had some girl on girl with your wife
    LOL

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    Quote Originally Posted by gd1996 View Post
    I don't think you were wrong, but sounds like he was having a rough time with it. However if they were such good friends, why 6 years of not talking? And calling an ex was a big no no and he totally crossed the line there. I don't understand what people are thinking at times when in a relationship... my gf, ex, whatever she is now really ticked me off the past couple of days, so I'm a little bitter right now!
    He give the whole, she is a good friend of mine. We were both friends with him. FUCK OFFFFFFFF!!!! Go live with her!!!! PLEASE!!!!!

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    I hear ya... I get the friends bs all the time. Sounds like you should get some rest and sleep on it.

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