How persistent are you with getting a girl?

**AKIRA** · 06-09-2007, 03:32 PM

I am not too persistent, but I have seen others have luck.

Last night for example, this waitress was clearly hitting on me among my friends. I noticed it the first time she came around and so did everyone else. She flirted again and again, so I said fuck it and hit back. When it came time to ask her out, she hesitated. I tried once more and I caught onto the ol' "hard to get" game, in which I instantly lossed interest.

My friends said I shoulda done this and that, but for me, fuck all that. The bitch didnt say yes...and she didnt say yes twice.

I wasnt rude or acted like a frustrated juice head, I was actually cordial. However, my friends insisted that I shouldve kept trying. Why, so I can look desperate?

I think they just wanted to see how many ways I could get rejected.

But like I said, other people have been persistent and its panned out. Has anyone else out there?

**davered00ss** · 06-09-2007, 03:35 PM

A lot of waitresses flirt to get bigger tips. Probably would have neded the same if you kept hitting on her too. You just look despirate if you work too hard for it.

**AKIRA** · 06-09-2007, 03:37 PM

Originally Posted by davered00ss

A lot of waitresses flirt to get bigger tips. Probably would have neded the same if you kept hitting on her too. You just look despirate if you work too hard for it.

It wasnt my tab. She knew ahead of time who had the money.

**MagicMan** · 06-09-2007, 04:38 PM

When I want something I get it...

**310stanger** · 06-09-2007, 04:48 PM

It is true, girls and anything pertaining to bars and restaurants are a fucking crap shoot. Unless they literally are very direct with you its a tough game. Waitresses flirt for tips all the time. Girls flirt with guys in bars all the time because it means they only pay a cover to get in at best. Girls LOVE a night of free drinks. This girl may have flirted with you but if you asked her out and she didnt respond or say yes then I'd say game over. Granted you could have said something to the effect of what are you doing when you get off work, or stop by so and so's house when shes off and come and have a few drinks. It puts her in a situation where you arent blatantly asking her out because its a social fun event. It also gives you the opportunity to get booze down her throat. This makes your odds way better. Anything to put odds in your favor is the name of the game with chicks.

**AKIRA** · 06-09-2007, 05:37 PM

Im really not put off by what happened to me. Id rather like to hear of some stories where "i think i can, i think i can" came through.

MagicMan made a good start.

**310stanger** · 06-09-2007, 05:59 PM

Originally Posted by AKIRA

Im really not put off by what happened to me. Id rather like to hear of some stories where "i think i can, i think i can" came through.

MagicMan made a good start.

Well last year I did have "success" with a very gorgeous 30 yr old blonde gogo dancer for 2 months....... Not jus low grade girl. High line! lol

**AKIRA** · 06-09-2007, 06:04 PM

Howd you get her? Pretty straight forward or did you have to spend shit loads of money (cuz shes a dancer)?

**Scanlamp** · 06-09-2007, 06:59 PM

she just wants you to keep coming back there. That way she gets your or whoever is payings tip. Get you to be a regular. Yes it does make you look desperate, if she really wanted you she would have said yes.

**86 IROC-Z** · 06-09-2007, 08:57 PM

I'm not single... so I usually don't give them the time of day

**joerockhead** · 06-10-2007, 07:32 AM

Should have just said, lets meet for lunch, or cup of joe.
Anything that was not a date.

She wanted to make sure you wher enot just tryig to get laid.
Too bad you quit so early, you would have gotten some.

**AKIRA** · 06-10-2007, 08:46 AM

Originally Posted by joerockhead

Should have just said, lets meet for lunch, or cup of joe.
Anything that was not a date.

She wanted to make sure you wher enot just tryig to get laid.
Too bad you quit so early, you would have gotten some.

God dammit.

I did ask her to coffee. "I dont drink coffee." Ok then lets go out for some water. She giggled. Then I didnt care...and still dont.

Ugh, this is why I hate starting threads with examples.

**SeVeReDiStOrTiOn** · 06-10-2007, 09:12 AM

She actually said she doesn't drink coffee...what a bitch! I'm sure she knows damn well that they sell other stuff at those yuppie coffee places. Chics should just lie and say they have a b/f if they're not interested in someone..

**snaggeltooth** · 06-10-2007, 09:21 AM

Hey , you either hit it off or you dont ... Most time you know in the first 5 min .. If it dont work , pull up stakes and move on ....

**rbob93** · 06-10-2007, 11:41 AM

Originally Posted by SeVeReDiStOrTiOn

Chics should just lie and say they have a b/f if they're not interested in someone..

Noooooo

Chics should just tell the truth & say "I'm not interested in you."

Now wouldn't that make things a whole lot easier??

Trouble is.....they really don't know if they're interested or not so they play that stupid little game of thiers so they can keep the options open.

**310stanger** · 06-10-2007, 12:03 PM

Originally Posted by AKIRA

Howd you get her? Pretty straight forward or did you have to spend shit loads of money (cuz shes a dancer)?

I was direct about it honestly. You are not likely to pick up a dancer. They are there jus to make money. But every once and awhile they'll have an interest in people. I was take charge and direct and I ended up taking her home. The guys that spend a shit load to get the dancers are the ones that jus become "customers". You spend jus enough so that she has incentive to hang around you but not soo much that you make it the focal point. I banged the hell out of that girl for a good 2 months. I didn't want anything else from her, dancers are drunks that make a lot of money and make a lot of poor decisions. This girl though was top shelf she used to pull up to 3 grand a week.

**AKIRA** · 06-10-2007, 12:56 PM

Originally Posted by snaggeltooth

Hey , you either hit it off or you dont ... Most time you know in the first 5 min .. If it dont work , pull up stakes and move on ....

Yeah...almost like you get a vibe! Most girls that I say "i bet I could fuck her" actually pans out and its cuz of a feeling I get.

I guess if you get that 'feeling' and the girl hesitates, thats the moment it is determined that theres some effort needed.

**MagicMan** · 06-10-2007, 12:59 PM

Originally Posted by rbob93

Noooooo

Chics should just tell the truth & say "I'm not interested in you."

Now wouldn't that make things a whole lot easier??

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**AKIRA** · 06-10-2007, 01:02 PM

One thing Ive always hated is getting a girl's number (its real) and she never calls you back.

If a girl doesnt want to give her number out, she should say so! Now you got me looking like half a stalker while I am just trying to passively get my penis wet!